Ted guy Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 (edited) Dating is relatively loose where I come from. I've had times where a girl essentially thought I was dating her, when I didn't have a clue she felt that way. --------------------------- Like for example, in college, I met back up with someone I went to high school with. I was bored for Christmas break and messaging people for stuff to do. She messaged me and we were talking about hanging out for Christmas supper etc. Then we hung out with her cousin (my best friend at the time) and I kept leaving because I wasn't feeling good from my meds. There had been NO talk of love, romance, or anything at all. But my friend messaged me the week later, saying she was upset and wasn't sure if she could be in a relationship someone who was running from her like me. She thought I was her boyfriend. WHAT!?!?!?!?! I quickly proceeded to message her I just looked at her as a friend. I didn't know that was what she thought. But that's happened to me many times. From my perception it is SO STRANGE, and I bet most people reading, you feel the same way. Now that I'm aware of being aro, I'm always confused what other people think. I'm just wordering if anyone relates. ------------- As I said on my other posts, because I'm not able to understand the perception of non-aros, I'm worried about getting in trouble. I dont understand 70% of it. I like being nice to people and my co-workers bringing them things like coffees and cupcakes etc. But now I'm worried they think it's me trying to bed them Edited February 27 by Ted guy 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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