Bumble_Bee_ Posted January 24, 2022 Share Posted January 24, 2022 (edited) I need help coming out as aroflux and asexual I have no idea how to come out Help Please Edited January 24, 2022 by Bumble_Bee_ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1 roboticanary Posted January 25, 2022 Share Posted January 25, 2022 12 minutes ago, Bumble_Bee_ said: Yeah I kinda figured it'd be different I just don't know how to do either Fair enough. As long as you understand that. As @Arsenic says. Wait till something sexual comes up in conversation. Thinking back to when I was young that was something that happened quite often so there will be plenty of opportunity to casually mention that that isn't really something you are interested in. The other thing I would suggest, as sad as this sounds, is to prepare yourself in case of a dissapointing response. Make sure that if someone you tell does dismiss your identity you can counter that. Not for the sake of arguing with them, but more for your sake. By coming out you always take the risk that people will respond negatively and you will probably have a better time if you are confident in your identity and can counter criticism. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1 Arsenic Posted January 25, 2022 Share Posted January 25, 2022 Wait until there is a sexual or romantic related conversation around you and say that you are not interested in those things because you are aroace. Pd: I love your new profile photo, it is super cute. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1 roboticanary Posted January 25, 2022 Share Posted January 25, 2022 Not sure to be honest. First thing though would be to think about who it is you want to come out to, why you want to come out to them and how knowledgeable you think they are about this sort of thing. Advice for telling a friend at school is going to look very different to telling your mum for example. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1 roboticanary Posted January 25, 2022 Share Posted January 25, 2022 4 minutes ago, Bumble_Bee_ said: Thank you so much @roboticanary No worries By the way, one last bit of advice. Take everything I say with a grain of salt. I am just some dude on the Internet. Hope things go well for you. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 Bumble_Bee_ Posted January 25, 2022 Author Share Posted January 25, 2022 10 hours ago, Arsenic said: Pd: I love your new profile photo, it is super cute. Thanks :D 4 minutes ago, roboticanary said: Advice for telling a friend at school is going to look very different to telling your mum for example. Yeah I kinda figured it'd be different I just don't know how to do either 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 Bumble_Bee_ Posted January 25, 2022 Author Share Posted January 25, 2022 Thank you so much @roboticanary 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 Bumble_Bee_ Posted January 25, 2022 Author Share Posted January 25, 2022 I trust people on the internet more than I trust people irl 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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I need help coming out as aroflux and asexual
I have no idea how to come out
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