Thiel Posted October 7, 2021 Share Posted October 7, 2021 Hi everyone! Well, this is my first interaction with the aro community so nice to meet you. English isn't my first language, so sorry if I make any mistakes. I'm in my late 20s and questioning if I'm aromantic. I've always thought that a romantic relationship was like having a best friend you had sex with, but seeing my friends with their partners, I assume I was wrong. I have been in 3 relationships before but I never wanted a future with them nor I needed to be with them all the time. In my last realtionship I even felt romance repulsed during the last few months, but I didn't know romance repulsion was a thing, so I felt terrible because he was a nice guy and it was obvious he was suffering because I wasn't as involved in the relationship as he was. I didn't knew you could be aromantic so I didn't know what was happening with me. I've had 2 friends with benefits and those have been the best relationships I've ever had. I wanted that kind of relationship but with more commitment, maybe I wanted to be QPRs? I'm not really sure. I think that more aromantic visibility would have made me question my romantic orientation earlier, which would have been helpful. So, that's it, that's all my rant. Thanks for reading. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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