ollie.is.gay Posted October 1, 2020 Share Posted October 1, 2020 hey, i’m ollie, and i’m pretty new here... i’ve been super confused lately about my sexuality. i’m turning 13 in two weeks and i’ve identifies as lgbtqa+ since i was around,, 11, i think? at first pansexual, then lesbian... but all my friends have had crushes and whatnot, whereas i’ve never felt anything more than physical / aesthetic attraction and strong platonic attraction. i love the idea of a relationship and am 100% attracted to females in some form of way, but i’m starting to question wether i’m demiromantic or possibly aromantic... but am i, or am i just a late bloomer - or, possibly, do i FEEL romantic attraction but not know?? i don’t understand the concept of “love at first sight”. how someone can see someone, talk to them for a little bit and suddenly - boom! - they’re madly in love. it takes me ages just to THINK about a romantic relationship, and even then it’s not an actual crush - just curiosity. please, any aromantic/demiromantic people here, help me out - i’m super confused and i hate feeling like this; so out of control and isolated. (also, if you have any tips on separating romantic feelings from platonic ones, that would be great - i suck at that lol) - ollie ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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