chairdesklamp Posted July 8, 2020 Share Posted July 8, 2020 I'm mixed, part Japanese, raised in Japan until teen, English is my third language, trans male, formerly identified as bi and really reluctant to let go of that because of biphobia including racist abusers hurting me for claming that, but I discovered what "sexual attraction" really was and that I don't feel that last year. At almost 40 I'm wondering if I even *ever* really felt romantic attraction, if maybe I'm cupioromantic, was something else aro and just lonely all along and brainwashed by amatonormativity. At the same time, I'm starting off not really trusting anyone because AVEN is so toxic and bigoted and I'm worried about a repeat. In fact, I'm ready to not post this and delete my account right now, so I'm gonna hit "post" before I lose my nerve. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jot-Aro Kujo Posted July 8, 2020 Share Posted July 8, 2020 If you're worried about this site being like AVEN, don't worry, you're in good company. Half the userbase is here because they got sick of AVEN being Like That. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted July 8, 2020 Share Posted July 8, 2020 Welcome! I dont know much about AVEN but free bigotry is not really i thing i often see around there ?♂️ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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