DramaQueen Posted September 24, 2017 Share Posted September 24, 2017 Hi everybody, I'm Mag, I make music, I love to write and small pleasures and details are my favorite things! I don't really know how I would define myself. I'm 26, grew up in a very heteronomative context and managed to find my way out of it, and only then I started doubt about romantic love. This was some years ago, but I never dared to defy romantic relationships. I'm a very loving person and I love to be loved and I need deep connexions with people. I've never found romantic love really comforting even when it was actually going well with my partners. I saw (and lived) the limites of it personally and it seemed to me like an illusion that sucked me in, making me feel like I needed those things that I actually find cheesy. I want to detach myself from romantic love, to be able to love people other ways, which is very puzzling because I'm confronted to the unknown, and I feel very lonely with it. I am sexual and I currently feel a really deep connection with this another human being who claims he never fell in love and never will. I've found him absolutely amazing since the first time we talked and I know that it's the same for him, but not in a romantic way. I have strong feelings for him, I really love him and don't want to change him, but at the same time I have so many doubts and questions to ask you all...I think romantic love is not true, but at the same time I have no examples of a truer form of love, especially in my situation: I have this good friend that I LOVE, we have sex together and we really like eachother but we are not in couple and everyone around me belittling this relationship that is so valuable to me, hurt me. I'm not comfortable with names and definitions and I'm very ignorant of the subject, so please excuse me in advance if I offend someone with my poorly chosen words. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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