I've considered myself aro for a while now, and have even told some of my close friends. the problem being, that maybe I'm not? my best friend who've I've been incredibly close to for years now, just feels special to me in a way that is different. of course I love her as a friend, but I've begun to wonder if it's more than that. I don't think I would mind calling her or considering her my girlfriend? but I'm not really sure if that's romantic attraction or just a result of being so close for so long. I've dated before but ended it because the person just did not feel right, and I assumed I was aro because I couldn't even see anyone as anything more than a best friend. I'm not sure how I feel with her, it's all so confusing. I've already told her I'm aro too so that much further complicates things.... if you have any advice then talk away!! I am at a total loss