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  1. techno

    AJNXJWJDKQKDA at 7 AM i was sleeping and my roommate finally came back after a night of partying and a guy on our floor was putting her to bed (even though she could walk herself but okay) and then i heard them kissing for a solid 30 seconds and he was like "goodnight" (it's 7 AM my dude the SUN IS RISING) and said something and she goes "i love you too" and he leaves ajdhwjdkkwkd she's been off-and-on hating and loving this guy all year and i know they thought i was sleeping but my romance repulsed ass was SCREAMING and now i feel like i'm harboring a dirty secret SOS my aro ass doesn't deserve this

    1. Cavalier080854

      Cavalier080854

      You have to, the world does not change for a tiny minority. It sucks, but what you are saying is narcissism, people think only of themselves, without exception. They are in the heat of the moment  The last thing on their minds is you. You have to be more tolerant and forgiving. 

      What they are doing is normal. All you will install is resentment if they go with what you want.

      This has very little to do with respect, more live and let live.

      So long as you are not physically involved, then I advise you to drop it. Bad feelings will ensue

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  2. techno

    AJNXJWJDKQKDA at 7 AM i was sleeping and my roommate finally came back after a night of partying and a guy on our floor was putting her to bed (even though she could walk herself but okay) and then i heard them kissing for a solid 30 seconds and he was like "goodnight" (it's 7 AM my dude the SUN IS RISING) and said something and she goes "i love you too" and he leaves ajdhwjdkkwkd she's been off-and-on hating and loving this guy all year and i know they thought i was sleeping but my romance repulsed ass was SCREAMING and now i feel like i'm harboring a dirty secret SOS my aro ass doesn't deserve this

    1. Cavalier080854

      Cavalier080854

      Leave them be. Don't impose your values and attitudes on them. You and all aro aces are the ones out off sinc with the world. You have to be more forgiving, majority privilege, in our case 99%, though that is with aces, aro aces are rarer.

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  3. Magni

    My roommate’s boyfriend is over and they’re having a tickle fight?!?!? Idk but it’s loud and obnoxious and I am not able to take a nap 

    1. Cavalier080854

      Cavalier080854

      Go for a drink, or a fast food meal. Or order a large pizza. Everyone stops for a slice of pizza.

  4. arokaladin

    why are there goddamn thirteen year olds on tumblr with aesthetic blogs labelling themselves as aphobes like it makes them cool that's a) horrifying and b) embarassing

    1. Cavalier080854

      Cavalier080854

      The arrogance of youth. We were all like that at that age, only I didn't have social media as an echo chamber in the 60s. You were more likely to meet a fist if you were insufferable.

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  5. karnzter

    I hope you guys are having a better, responsible, respectful, rested, relaxed and calmer day than I just did.

     

    Let's just say today was the worst birthday I've so far had. 0/1000000000000 would rather forget for good.

    1. Cavalier080854

      Cavalier080854

      At least you can put a figure to it. So it could be worse. There is always someone worse than yourself.

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  6. Magni

    I have great friends who I adore, but they're all alloromantic and most people simply don't value friendships the same way they do romantic relationships.  So sometimes I feel this aching loneliness because I fear that inevitably they're all going to get married and stuff and I'm just going to end up alone.

    1. Cavalier080854

      Cavalier080854

      Watch the drama within the relationships from the sidelines.

      Pull up the chair and get out the pop corn.

      I've been doing it since the 60s. Forever single and not bothered in the slightest.

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  7. techno

    I realized that in my four years of identifying as aro, I have not once actually actively come out to someone 100% of my own free will without feeling obligated or coerced into doing it.

     

    Anyone who knows I either didn't have to tell or felt forced to tell.

    1. Cavalier080854

      Cavalier080854

      I waited 11 years before revealing to a close friend, the first since leaving the Army.

  8. arokaladin

    so turns out seeing her partner for the billionth time this month is more important to my friend than seeing me to celebrate my birthday ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

    1. Cavalier080854

      Cavalier080854

      At least it is on a work free day. You did say there would be booze ?

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