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  1. TheNothingFairy

    I think that I might be a little bit cupioromantic 

  2. TheNothingFairy

    Ayo I'm back and doing pretty gooooood

    How are y'all?    

    1. AroAcedragon15

      AroAcedragon15

      hi! i'm pretty good.:frog:

    2. Storm_leopardcat

      Storm_leopardcat

      Fine, Alhumdulilah!

  3. TheNothingFairy

    I might leave the site for a little while, I am confused and just need time to process everything,  thank you all for being so kind and accepting. Have a great day y'all

    1. Alaska Native Manitou

      Alaska Native Manitou

      Good luck.

  4. TheNothingFairy

    I'm planning on coming out to my parents as aroace on Wednesday OOF I DID NOT THINK THIS THROUGH BUT IM GONNA DO IT 

    PLEASEPLEASEPLEASE anyone have ANY advice for coming out as aroace???? 

    1. AroAcedragon15

      AroAcedragon15

      I've come out a few times but only to friends so its a bit different than parents.The first time was the hardest because I was so scared but I can promise you it is so worth it.I came out over text the first time and then most of the others just kinda happened unexpectedly.I made sure that I knew what their thoughts were on lgbtq+ things were before I even considered coming out to them though. I would come up with a plan on how you want to do it and then when you are ready try and follow that plan but sometimes the best thing to do is wing it and go with the flow. I wish you the best of luck and remember you're valid no matter what.

    2. TheNothingFairy

      TheNothingFairy

      Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww thank you!! I honestly feel a lot better after reading this, and thank you!  :D   

  5. TheNothingFairy

    Ha! When the doubt starts creeping in...    am I aroace? Is it in my head? Are my parents right? Am I too young and stupid to know? I don't think it's in my head? Is it? Whatever, I'm too tired to dwell on it right now

    Have a great day guys 

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    2. The Gray Warlock

      The Gray Warlock

      Listen to love songs in the genre of music you like the least. Seriously. All this week I've been hearing country music on the pa at my current job (last day today thank God!) Easily half of it is love songs of some type, and each time it's like "I'm so not into this." Any remaining doubts I may have had about being aro have been put to rest for good.

    3. A User

      A User

      fr tho, hetronormativity + allonormativity is making me believe that if i wait awhile i'll understand wut romance feels like

      but my hormones are working in all other circumstances and yet i still dont get why crushes feel the way they do

  6. TheNothingFairy

    Hi! I'm new here and figuring stuff out! I am 14 (sorry for sharing that if I'm not supposed to but it's important) I have never had a crush, am NOT interested in dating, and relationships just confuse me. I just don't understand how anyone could feel that way. I know that this is for aromantic people but I also have never felt any sexual feeling towards anyone before. I don't know if I'm just too young, as most people I know tell me that, or if I could be aroace? This is dumb but I felt the need to say it

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    2. Alaska Native Manitou

      Alaska Native Manitou

      It's okay to be unsure. Take your time figuring things out & don't let others push you into doing something you don't want.

    3. queer_kaleidoscope

      queer_kaleidoscope

      Hey! Welcome to arocalypse :)

    4. The Gray Warlock

      The Gray Warlock

      I didn't have any interest in girlfriends or dating either when I was your age. And that has not changed much over the last 28 years, however much I may have tried to convince myself otherwise. I say if 14 isn't too young to know you're gay, bi or straight, then it isn't too young to know you're aroace.

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