dewy

Discovered this group called Garnidelia from their song Tougen Renka which I've become absolutely obsessed with.

popcorn (idk why, similar snacks i guess?)

On 7/8/2022 at 2:02 AM, Holmbo said:

Which is the aro dance?

Ngl all I can think of is the cupid shuffle or the chicken dance, some of the least romantic dances out there. As you can probably tell I'm not a dancer.

I'm not a big fan of the "but we can still love" rhetoric in the aspec community. Makes it seem like you need to "love", yknow? I think it's important to clarify that not all asexual people are aromantic, and vice versa but using that kind of wording/rhetoric... isn't the best way to get that point across. I hope this makes sense, I'm quite tired right now 😅

I'm offended because you started a new page, making it page 18 now.

Type of aromantic: Aro coded villain, yesss >:)

Aro representation type: Appearance headcanon fodder, love it. This checks out since I love my headcanons and I love color picked pride flags.

Arcana: Cups, don't really know what this means but cool.

Flag: Arospec flag, I'm happy with this since it's really pretty. "You may be a bit on the darker side, maybe into dark academia, cryptids, or mossy forests."

queen

yum!

pickles?

wax

angry

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On 7/9/2022 at 9:09 AM, roboticanary said:

About an hour later I walk back past to see this burly Parisian guy with a pair of bolt cutters chopping a load of them off, which doesn't seem like it bodes well for the relationship.

Oh that was just me. Gotta keep those locks from weighing down the bridge too much.

Jokes aside, that's hilarious and I aspire to have the same energy as that guy.

yum!

potato salad

Now you get the forums themselves confused.

I don't need sleep.

"Can you put flowers in acid?"

LoveIt by PinocchioP

restaurant

On 5/21/2022 at 3:37 PM, SkyTuneRein said:

How many of you would be interested in an anon poll for kinks/fets? I did something of the sort on AVEN months ago. But this place has a small fraction of the activity and I'd prefer to only publish results with enough takers, so it may have to be reduced in options and left open for longer. It'll be hosted on Google forms and open to all, which means one cannot accurately deduce who picked what, but at the risk of having non-members contribute and greater risk of trolls flooding it with spoilt submissions.

I think that'd be pretty interesting, I like surveys and data.

pasta

I'm offended because you capitalized one instance of "I'm" but not the other. Consistency is important.

I like making color picked pride flags, I like vocaloid. Gumi is practically a walking aroallo pride flag so bam, Gumi aroallo flag.

10 minutes ago, DeltaV said:

 As a grumpy old agender person I see all the yang wans talking about stuff like "aesthetics", which I don't understand. I looked it up on Wiki and now I'm prepared to make a dad joke: Maybe your aesthetic is ... don't-care-core?

I feel the same, my aesthetic is comfycore (which is probably actually a thing)

ew. too much. just an oreo is fine.

pho?

Definitely sexual orientation. Like someone else here said, it's less nebulous of a concept. I am also a romance favorable aro so that makes me feel a bit unsure.

On 6/28/2022 at 7:21 PM, loneranger98 said:

i'm pretty confident in my romantic orientation at this point but my sexual orientation is still a bit murky. i think the closest i could say is bi because i definitely have some sort of attraction to all sorts of people, except i don't have much sexual experience to know if i'm into that aspect of it if that makes sense? like it's hard for me to tell the difference between sexual and simply aesthetic/physical attraction.

 

For me aesthetic attraction is just "oh, they're pretty" and with sexual attraction I might feel arousal and/or think about doing ~things~. They are connected though, best way I can explain it is like this. Please be nice to the diagram, I rushed it.

11 minutes ago, DeltaV said:

I don't want to leave the impression that I'm against anyone trying such methods. I just found the whole idea a bit far fetched.

Oh don't worry, I get you.