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dewy

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  1. I really like how a lot of apps are adding pronoun fields now. Apple added one in their contacts app in IOS 17, and I noticed Discord has one too, although I don’t know how long ago that was and I’m too lazy to look it up. I think this is a step in the right direction, and hopefully this’ll help to normalize asking about pronouns and the gender spectrum as a whole.

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      dewy

      Yeah I've been seeing more people add pronouns to their about including cis people and I like how it helps normalize it. Me and a lot of other trans people have issues where we feel like we stick out like a sore thumb when sharing pronouns so it's good to see sharing them is becoming more common.

  2. watching an ace attorney playthrough at the part where one character starts hitting another when hearing about a romantic relationship (apparently an anime trope?) and i find it funny that the people playing it are confused about it and i was just like "oh same" when i got to that scene.

    1. dewy

      dewy

      @SilenceRadio

      it was mia, she just did it more because she didn't like it i guess, not the same reason pearl does that.

       

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  3. Finally got an opportunity to actually try IDing as just aro rather than aroace and oh my god it was so freeing and comforting. To just be able to be like "I'm aro, and THAT is what matters and affects me" and to be able to state I'm aro and know people aren't going to only acknowledge and fixate on my aceness? Amazing. To just be able to affirm the fact that my sexuality is my business and is more complicated and nuanced than the assumptions people leap to when I say I'm ace? Wonderful.

    I was a little uncertain of the non-SAM aro label but damn if it doesn't feel good.

    1. dewy

      dewy

      @Ikarus

      basically when you're aro and feel neutral on sexuality (specifically on whether you're allo or ace)

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  4. Finally got an opportunity to actually try IDing as just aro rather than aroace and oh my god it was so freeing and comforting. To just be able to be like "I'm aro, and THAT is what matters and affects me" and to be able to state I'm aro and know people aren't going to only acknowledge and fixate on my aceness? Amazing. To just be able to affirm the fact that my sexuality is my business and is more complicated and nuanced than the assumptions people leap to when I say I'm ace? Wonderful.

    I was a little uncertain of the non-SAM aro label but damn if it doesn't feel good.

    1. dewy

      dewy

      i felt the same when i found out about the term neu aro recently! it really does feel good, i'm glad you found something that fits.

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  5. just learned about the term neu aro and it just feels so right :)

    1. dewy

      dewy

      @alto

      oh, it's supposed to be more like prioritizing your aromanticism over your sexual orientation because you feel neutral about it, at least that's how it is for me.

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  6. just learned about the term neu aro and it just feels so right :)

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      dewy

      @alto

      it's when you're neutral on whether you're allosexual or asexual

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  7. Resting at home with covid, afraid of getting behind in school - ~ -

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