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Arsenic

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  1. Question for those of you who Kiss People (whether or not you like kissing lol)-

    As an aromantic/aro-spec person, is it? Nice??

    Idk I’ve just been kinda wanting to try and kiss someone recently, but if I think about it for too long I get super grossed out lmao. I’d like some perspectives from y’all, if you’ve kissed someone and how it made you feel as aro(spec) people. All of my friends are very much Into kissing people and also Not super aromantic sooo their perspectives aren’t super helpful.

    1. Arsenic

      Arsenic

      Sometimes it feels nice, it's a way of feeling closer, I guess.

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  2. My math finial is coming up, I’m scared 

    1. Arsenic

      Arsenic

      You will do it alright. Relax and trust in what you have learned, you will pass it!

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  3. TFW you keep finding something when you don't need it, but can't find it when you do.

    1. Arsenic

      Arsenic

      Not me reading TFW as The fuck what.

  4. Is it just me, or does Elsa sort of give off aro vibes?

    1. Arsenic

      Arsenic

      Yeah, a bit. She looks like a lesbian demi-aro, and asexual. And Merida, for me, is aroace.

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  5. I just came out to my dad as trans he didn’t react well, he came back drunk and said I would always be his little girl. I want to cry I wish I had better parents. 

    1. Arsenic

      Arsenic

      I am so sorry to read that. I hope he changes his mind. If you want to talk about it, you can count on me. You are valid Jackson, thinks will get better.  

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  6. I'm coming out to my mom and dad as trans in family therapy i two weeks I' wondering if I should ask them to give me a name? I don't know if this is a good idea. 

    1. Arsenic

      Arsenic

      My friend, it is YOUR name. You are the one who will have to use it, not them. You are the one who has to like it, not your parents. You are Jackson, aren't you? If they don't like, then they will have to get used to it. It would be ridiculous if you were the one who had to get used to a new name chosen by others.

      I say this because this happened to me. I am in love with my name, but my parents didn't like it. They would have wanted me to be Alex instead of Nick, and I tried to make them happy by using the name they wanted, but I regretted a few days later and had an anxiety attack because I was so upset and angry and sad with myself. I talked to my parents and explained the situation to them, and now they are getting used to call me Nick.

      You like your name? Then there is nothing more to discuss. You are Jackson, and that's all.

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  7. I'm coming out to my mom and dad as trans in family therapy i two weeks I' wondering if I should ask them to give me a name? I don't know if this is a good idea. 

    1. Arsenic

      Arsenic

      What do you mean by giving you a name? Isn't your name Jackson?

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  8. My squish has an squish on me too! We're meeting today:)

  9. OMGGGGGG IM A VETERAN MEMBERRRRRRRRRR

    1. Arsenic

      Arsenic

      Me too and I am not even close of being a veteran member:(

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  10. OMGGGGGG IM A VETERAN MEMBERRRRRRRRRR

    1. Arsenic

      Arsenic

      HOOOWWW! YOU JOINED TWO MONTHS AGO, TELL ME YOUR SECRET

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  11. Me: -is literally on this website almost 24/7 because I have no life-

    1. Arsenic

      Arsenic

      x2, and I have fun with the games in Arcade

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  12. I am tired of studying, I need to end with the exams.

    1. Arsenic

      Arsenic

      Good luck with it. I only have one left, and after that I'll be back to university, finally!

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  13. 25325FF1-4E99-4698-A358-518D366081F0.png.9cecc6d79160bdc3786c2850dd399767.pngI wasn't sure where I should post this, so I thought it'd be best to just make it a status update.

    1. Arsenic

      Arsenic

      Wooowww... It is true that an image says more than 1000 words... This is a very good example of how amatonormativity works. You could try to post this in the forum "aromanticism", there will be more visible than here, and I think that more people should see this.

  14. one of my friends, he's bi, and we were talking about lgbt terms and stuff and he goes, "Yeah I don't really understand they/them and I'd never, i mean NEVER call someone zie/zyr" and I was just like, wow thanks man not gonna tell you i use they/zie/zyr.

    1. Arsenic

      Arsenic

      If someone doesn't respect your pronouns then you shouldn't keep them in your life

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  15. one of my friends, he's bi, and we were talking about lgbt terms and stuff and he goes, "Yeah I don't really understand they/them and I'd never, i mean NEVER call someone zie/zyr" and I was just like, wow thanks man not gonna tell you i use they/zie/zyr.

    1. Arsenic

      Arsenic

      He doesn't have to understand the pronouns to use them correctly, it is called RESPECT and NOT BEING AN ASSHOLE. Did you tell him about your pronouns?

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  16. im almost suprised there is barely any community interaction here tbh

    literally

    1. Arsenic

      Arsenic

      It would be amazing that we interacted more with each other. You know, making aspec friends... 

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