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would love to know if its still up too! or if any other server has rised since

1 hour ago, whatistheromance said:

Maybe have a talk with them about it.

This! If you feel uncomfortable with the way things are going in your relationship it is best to talk about those feelings so that way you and your friend can come to an agreement as to where the both of you want to take your relationship next, communication is key 🙆‍♀️

Blueberry Cheesecake and Black Cherry 💕

Coffee gets a honorable mention

an awesome theme! i've been wanting to participate in one of these events for quite some time now, i'll try to find some free time to write a small piece 😁

I know this is from 2019 but as someone that can relate, only thing I can say is God gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers 🙈

Is anyone from here also on FR? It's one of my current obsessions at the moment (if only the site wasn't so laggy for some reason...)

Been a while since I was last on here!

I personally love eating, I can kind of see it as a fun activity but not so much as a social one, nothing really compares to eating alone and having the commodity of not being judged while doing so 🤷‍♀️

I'm a huge fan of lovecore/weddingcore, it's such a shame real romance is nowhere near these aesthetics 😅

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Loss of attraction is a common thing, or at least it was in my case 🙋‍♀️ I felt romantic attraction at some point in my life when I was 13 and never again have I experienced it. I imagine sexual attraction can't be too different 🤷‍♀️

6 hours ago, Guest Hailey said:

All the asexual people I’ve met say they’ve never felt it, so is it too daikon for me to say I am one?

If you think the label fits you, then go for it! If you want to consult it with other aces, however, you might wanna check out AVEN

It all ties in with misogyny tbh, there wouldn't be so many "type of girlfriend" memes if it were otherwise 🤷‍♀️

You're not crazy, many other aros find themselves in experiences similar to yours; my advice would be to not let yourself be ruled by your parent's expectations, you are your own person and they must understand that.

Man these are all great features! I especially love the badge and club idea 👍

I know the very basics of the game, wouldn't call myself particularly good at it but I can manage 💁‍♀️

Haha yeah! The puzzles are certainly confusing, I can't say much myself because I've only seen gameplays (I don't have the money to afford a switch, and probably won't for the next year or two) but it's definitely tricky!

Ahh, Encanto, a very sweet movie about family and expectations with a point that flew over most people's heads. The emphasis made by the fandom on characters having romantic relationships (Camilo especially) and their sexualities was probably the most unnecessary thing ever in my opinion. (it's a movie about FAMILY, why can't people just focus on that?)

I personally had no problem with people's headcanons (Isabela included), it's just a headcanon after all! I will say, however, some people were way too excited to bring down anything regarding Isa being a lesbian, and a few others were also way too excited and happy to group us all together as these evil people ruining fandom spaces...

Looks awesome!! Simple but elegant 💁‍♀️

As of now: Rubber Band from the hit game Paper Mario: The Origami King, amazing game I recommend it to everyone 👍 (I have been obsessing over it since late December, and it's still going strong)

On 5/1/2022 at 1:28 PM, Neon said:

My friend refused to leave a toxic relationship because then she wouldn't be dating anyone, and she thought that was worse.

If I had a dime for every time I heard of a similar case I'd have at the very least 10 dimes, goes to show just how normalized this type of ideology is 🤦‍♀️

False, I used to sort of play the piano but I gave up on it 😅

TPBM knows someone named Mason

Bloxy Bingo on Roblox, only game I've had the time to play 🤷‍♀️

Most recent song I've been obsessed with lately: 피노키오(Danger) by f(x), literally what was I even doing in 2011??

A lot of people (predominantly alloallo people) sadly treat aromanticism like a joke, I for one blame ace discourse on tumblr.

As for tips, I'd recommend asking them to stop with the jokes, if they support you they'll understand that they're harmful to you, your identity is just as important as theirs. (also, if they're not aro then it's not their place to joke about aromanticism? they should know better, especially if they're part of the community)