ApeironStella
-
Posts
39 -
Joined
-
Last visited
-
Days Won
6
Recent Profile Visitors
ApeironStella's Achievements
.png.094c033d94a622cdf3505d759ccd7e0a.png "Rank: Young Frog (2/4)")
Young Frog (2/4)
Single Status Update
See all updates by ApeironStella
-
I am honestly a lot more protective towards allo aro people than allo aces, it seems. I don't hate them or want them to die or something- it is just their way of validating their humanity by saying they can "love too" makes me feel pretty disconnected with ace movement so I can easily see how us aroaces doing the "but we are mostly aces as well so we aren't 'heartless sex maniacs'" couldend up making allo aros feel the same way. Not that they all have to be always sexually active but because slut shaming and "cold, heartless monsters" are things they already might have and most likely do have said to them.
I just.
I am adopting you all okay.
-
-
Also the sexism, toxic masculinity, and gender binarism that come with being allo aro are awful. If you're perceived as female, you're slut-shamed for wanting sex without romance. If you're perceived as male, you're demonized for fitting the stereotype that men are mindless sex fiends. If your gender is non-binary, or if people aren't perceiving you as the right gender, you also get invalidation, dysphoria and erasure.
-
@omitef Yes, thank you ! You hit right on the mark !
-
