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That is the most amazing idea, if there was such an app existing I would applied right away !

I confess that it won't end up prettily if my significants others wouldn't just shut up about the whole effin' 'romance and kid' thing. Yeah I get it! Kids are awesoome, they are literally balls of sunshine yada yada... I'M MOTHERF*CKIN' 17 GUYS, IT ISN'T EVEN THE RIGHT TIME FOR ME TO THINK ABOUT THAT ! AND WHY WOULD YOU ALWAYS LINKED KIDS WITH ROMANCE HUH ?? Oh and sure, I will just wait around the corner when 'this significant other that will change everything' will have the kindness to come to me. Of course. Right. *sarcasm over 9000*

Quite interesting... As far as I am concerned, I always thought that kissing was with someone who was important for you and not always in a romantic way. And because I couldn't understand romance and most of the time the people I've seen kiss, seemed content and happy with it, well... No problem. My reasoning is very simple : I know that I'm aromantic, and I allow someone to kiss me, ONLY if they know about it or if i'm sure there no more than physical attraction. Then I can enjoy the feeling to kiss and beeing kissed without freaking myself about what that would maybe means for the other person. I love the ACT of kissing and the intimacy it brings with it, but the 'what if' because of the romantic aspect of kissing, kill it immediately u.u So I can kiss quite frequently my friends or my QP pals, but I won't go visit the throat of the other with my tongue unless I want it to finish under the sheets and still most of the times it just don't feel good. ('french kissing' my ass...) Just the peckin' On the other hand, I have NO problem gettin' a little more filthy when it's on the sexy side But in the end, It's alway difficult to determine the line between a sexual and a romantic behviour, unless you have a frank discussion at the very beginning and it STILL very confusing sometimes !

Nope ! I'm on the same boat as you \o/. But only for the right hand... My left hand has a longer ring finger against the index one ( the weirder, the better !)... . Oh and I'm female, aromantic and bisexual ! So theory absolutely not proven and case reopened !

@NullVector You're on x)

I LOVE hugging, cuddling and kissing. I even kind of crave it. But if it's gonna happen, you have to be in relationship with me or be part of my family (as in 'sister, mother, father') Otherwise You. Just. Don't. Touch. Me. At. All. Like. Never. Even when we're greeting: I really don't need you breathing near my fucking face, thank you very much (I hate this French custom... like ugh). I avoid any physical contact with anyone who isn't family or in relationship with me. Heck, even my best friend whom I love very much and can't even thank enough for being with me I can't touch him, unless he needs a hug (and that will be 3 hugs, in the 4 years that I know him). And it's still very veryyyy uncomfortable for me. But when family or my QP is involved, I became an octopus, or a cat. As in ' just touch me and I will be purring and humming in happiness, but god help me if you stop it will be very painful for you'

Here some electro swing Better, it's a Ram Jam's cover ! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D_JxMb8RLEY

Ah, I see you're a man of culture as well

It takes me a long time to understand that I was aromantic because I'm not at all romance repulsed... as long as it doesn't concerne me Yes I can understand why you're happy with this person, yes I can find a couple being in love cute and so on, yes I'm happy when you're happy, yes sometimes I'm shipping ( but it's more QP relationships than romantic and I keep this to myself), yes I can be 'romantic' (cuddles, kisses, little gifts... but not the 'candles, red wine and roses' kind) if I'm in a relationship because I care for that person (I wouldn't be with her otherwise, duh) But now, looking back, there were some tell-tale signs : Like many of you, I picked a crush on someone because that was everyone in elementary and middle school was doing. I couldn't care less about those thing but I was afraid to be rejected at the time. When a boy says he likes me, I panicked...Not because I've never had someone who said they liked me (but it was indeed the first time ) but because I felt nothing but physical attraction and respect for the boy. And because I didn't want to hurt his feelings, I agreed to date him. Bad idea : he fell in love and I felt cold and annoyed, because he was asking for something that I already said that I couldn't give. I don't understand relationships since I was a little kid... I don't understand human's interaction in general (even if I can easily play along), but more importantly I JUST DON'T understand relationships ! Sure I know how to manage a successful romantic relationship (by pure logic but whatever), but all the reasons and the results behind it left me more confused and appaled than everything. Romance in pop songs and movies left me with a sour taste in my mouth. Just ugh. I love Disney, but I cringe everytime I heard those cheesy songs or I see a character fell in love. There is a reason why Inside Out, Big Hero 6 and Zootopia are my favourites of all the Disney cinematographic (There also Hercule and the Hunchback of Notre Dame but it was really for their fantastic villains... and the music) Humans... Why have you to be so frustrating ?