Truth! It's pretty messed up.
I personally feel gross when I haven't shaved, but that doesn't apply to everyone and the fact that it's shoved down the throats of people who aren't cool with it pisses me off.
Every time I watched a movie that had a really good storyline, I would be super into it... until there was a romance sort of forced in, and I would ask myself "what's the point? it was good enough without it."
Personally I'll never understand the difference between flirting and being kind to someone. Society tells us to be kind to everyone, but when you do it they think it means that you want to be romantically involved?????