breaddd

On 5/3/2016 at 8:08 AM, Namakemono said:

Does anyone else have that instinctual disgust and/or annoyance? It's something I really struggle with and I'd like to know if anyone has discovered a way to deal with it.

I do. If someone is holding hands or if I see something even remotely romantic in a movie, I'll make a face. I don't know why, I'm not always repulsed by it, but I make the face anyway.

On 4/16/2016 at 8:06 AM, Cassiopeia said:

 

How does romantic love reverse neuro damage and re-animate dead tissue? And who wants to cuddle with a walking dead anyway? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I've seen this movie  

It's just because their love is ~so strong~

On 5/3/2016 at 8:36 AM, artemis said:

In middle school some "friends" of mine started talking about their weddings and I'm sitting here like??? But you're not even dating anyone??? Have you even though about how much it will cost?????

Recently, one of my friends started a wedding board on Pinterest. It's so far away though? We're 15, why would you plan this now?

5 hours ago, Cassiopeia said:

prefers to be called L

DEATH NOTE

Ahem...moving on.

I have a squish on a person on my soccer team  she has a Jack Skellington sweatshirt. Nuff said.

On 4/30/2016 at 2:53 PM, Cassiopeia said:

I'd separate PDA  (public displays of affection) and PF (public foreplay).

A couple on a dinner date, stroking each others hands, making lovey dovey eyes: PDA.

A couple in a bar making out while rubbing against each other, hands in each others back pocket: PF

 I think there is a need for separation of these two things, so thanks :3

PDA makes me repulsed and bothers me, PF doesn't make me repulsed, but it does bother me depending on the context.

Usually it's when people start getting coupley and stuff when it starts to bother and repulse me (i.e. acting like there are only the two of them in the world, looking into each other's eyes and then kissing *shiver*). I guess I'm okay with people doing that stuff in public, and I'm not going to make them stop, but I also really wish they just wouldn't.

Usually hand holding and hugs don't bother me. There's also a PDA policy at my school (which is never enforced ) that says basically any form of PDA is against the rules.

Green Thumb

Banned for putting down people who underthink.

Banned for thinking too much about the intentions of the forumgoers.

43 minutes ago, DannyFenton123 said:

Stop flirting, breaddd!

Oh no, I forgot ninja emoticons are the new way to flirt!

23 minutes ago, aihpen said:

I don't get when people are flirting either... Unless it's suuuuuper obvious, but most times I don't notice until someone mentions it. The confusing thing to me though is, that apparently for flirting you don't need to be nice? I know guys who were really rude to me and everyone told me afterwards that they were flirting. It simply doesn't make sense to me at all, it's so confusing 

Moral of the story: everything is flirting and no one is safe 

Yesterday my mom tried to not misgender me for the first time. I could see her struggling for a moment and then she said "themselves". I don't even remember the context. I was on my way to soccer practice and I cried and couldn't stop smiling.

22 hours ago, Dodgypotato said:

Lmao wtf. That is one of the weirder logical reasoning cases I've seen in a while! Is she better now??? That's dumb! D:

I don't know. She doesn't think it's because of a crush anymore if that's what you mean. She still has doubts about whether I'm trans or not but yesterday she tried to not misgender me! It wasn't gendering me correctly but I saw her struggling for a bit before she said "themselves". 

~progress~

(A little off topic but oh well)

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I constantly find myself wondering whether it was flirting or people just being nice  How often is it being friendly and how often are they flirting? Who knows? Are there specific signs I should be looking for?

Flour tortillas

Banned for photoshopping a face onto an album cover.

Weird story: when I came out as trans to my mom, my mom thought it was because I had a crush on a gay guy and so I wanted to change my gender so he would like me...

I don't think anyone would really follow that logic, even if they're romantic. It was really frustrating though  

So, I seem to be asked out by my friends a lot for some reason. (Doesn't matter if they identify as male or female.) And every time I either say "I'm gay" or "I'm straight" to get out of it...it's actually a pretty bad thing to do and I don't recommend it, but that's what I've done  

Sometimes I mentally prepare myself to turn people down because a lot of times my actions are read as flirty? All I'm doing is being friendly helpp

Chill out

I'm going to a lock-in at a school with my friends today  we're going to watch movies and eat pizza and go to open gym and stuff  

I'm also going to be the goalie in my soccer game tomorrow  it's so much fun!

Banned for phrasing that as a question.

I think I feel pretty much the same way. Often I'll view kissing as just...really weird and unnecessary, but as soon as things are with sexual intent it's a lot better. If someone is kissing me in a sexual way it makes sense but romantically and to show romantic interest...I kind of back off and

ew

Banned because I can quote you if I want to  

Banned because my color choice seems to be unfairly criminalized 

45 minutes ago, DeMorgan said:

Banned for using bright blue font.

22 hours ago, aihpen said:

Banned for using blue text.

Your Face!

Banned for avatar twinning with someone

My legs are really sore from soccer practice, but in a good way.

17 hours ago, Natkat said:

Did you mean squish or chrush???

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I think its so difficult to tell squish and chrush apart. all the thing with kissing and jelously are blurred like I may want to kiss them and I may not and I dont typically get jelous but I am capable of jelousy even when I dont feel like I experience the type of jelousy that is typical in many romantic relationships.

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The only way I have been able to tell the difference between a chrush and a squish were when i liked someone alot and thought "this must be a chrush" but then they liked me back and I where supposed somehow to show romantic feelings from them and been happy but instead I were annoyed, bored, indifferent or abit worried why our friendship should be complicated. 

 

Agh I did mean squish.  I didn't even notice that.