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Thank you so much for your answers! @NullVector @Mark @nonmerci @DeltaV @Jot-Aro Kujo 

Although ummm @Jot-Aro Kujo can we please not insult my Mum too much ? She was wrong and offensive be she’s still my Mum, thanks

Hello! I’m just an aro-ally wanting to learn more about the community ?. I’m a romantic asexual and I often have debates with my Mum about the a-spectrum community and the subject came to aromantic sexuals. And (I am sorry this might sound offensive!!) she said that it was “just a fancy word for sex without commitment”. I tried arguing against that but I was unable to really explain the difference although I think I understand it. I’m really sorry about this is offensive. Anyone able to give a clear response to why being aromantic sexual is not sex without commitment? Or anyone find the term somewhat correct? 

On 5/2/2019 at 9:18 PM, bydontost said:

Hmm, you mean like, a lithromantic person who gets het crushes, but the attraction then goes weird, fades, or there's no need to be in a relationship..??

Yup! 

9 hours ago, Jot-Aro Kujo said:

Sure.

8 hours ago, Magni said:

Anyone who isn't cisgender, heteromantic, AND heterosexual has a place in the lgbtqa community, so yeah.

Cool! Thanks for you answers! Although what if the person is cisgender, heterosexual and heteromantic but lithromantic too; are they lgbt+? 

5 minutes ago, Cristal Gris said:

Yeah. Since aromantism is a part of it , i don't see why we should exclude any aro-spec .

Yes I agree on that, aro-specs belong in the community 

Hello! I was just curious if someone who is cishet but is also lithromantic positive can be considered part of the lgbt+ community