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Okay, I'm not coming back for a while, even though my school just ended today. I have a very long vacation, but I will have some free time in August I believe.
So this status update may be slightly venty so if you don't care to read it, don't bother. I just kind of want to write this down. O_O And it doesn't really have anything to do with being aro either...
Well, this was the last day of middle school for me, and the last day I'm ever going to have class with one of my best friends. I was hoping I'd be able to see her over the summer, but I have a giant vacation and she's preparing for tennis and stuff, along with random vacations and other things that prevent me from hanging out with her. And when we finally go back to school, I have a feeling she's going to make new friends and forget about me, which I really don't want to happen. Especially since I don't really have many close friends. She is also probably going to be really busy in high school, since she got into a fancy schmancy special one and is going to be working on art and stuff (she's an amazing artist). I just kind of feel like today was the last time I'm going to see her in a long time and maybe ever if she forgets I exist. And it just makes me really depressed IDK.
Anyway, sorry for the awkward venting. I'll be back in August. See you guys then.
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Ouch, that's exactly how I lost the best friendship of my childhood, when I was a bit younger than 14 too. Not only did we move to different special high schools, but also she became interested sexually in hotter guys. Plus, my libido first woke up at the same time and I found her aesthetically unattractive
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Try asking her to find time for you in her busy schedule. If she doesn't want to... well, you're young and can make a lot of new friends in the years to come!
I've told the story so that you don't forget that you might be just a late bloomer... it's quite common to feel no sexual attraction until the age of 15-17, but it's great that you've learned the terminology and will be able to detect aces/aros IRL and help them come out!
Have a nice holiday!
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