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I don't think people read "Asexual and Aromantic" as "Asexual AND Aromantic" (At least I wouldn't). But I think "Liverpool and Wirral Asexual and Aromantic Social" is too long as a name and the two "ands" sound strange. I personally would only include the city you meet in in the name. If I searched an aromantics group in my area I would try all the major citys in my area. It would also help if you just include one post on the website etc. where all the names of cities around are listed so it shows up with the search results. But this might not even be becessary, as google is quite good with showing search results from other cities even if they don't match the search query exactly. I think I would go with " Liverpool (area) Asexual and Aromantic Social", but I don't have any experience with any of this. This is just personal preference.

The arodynamics discord-server ( https://discord.gg/PrXA5H4 ) is a bit smaler than the arocalypse server. There are also a bunch of other servers "in orbit" around the arocalypse server, which are even smaler. I'm sure if you ask in the arocalypse server you'll get the invite links. I don't think another server is of much use, as in just fractures the community. I personally am in 4 aro servers and just don't have the time to check regularly them all.

If you don't already know, there also is a (semi-official) arocalypse discord server, explained in this thread:

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I'm in a similar position and I personally just don't really care if I "count" as aromantic. It's so hard to define romantic attraction (we tried it in this post) that I can't ever know that i don't experience it. If I one day feel something I recognize as romantic attraction I know I'm not aromantic but up to that point I'll just label as (questioning) aromantic. However, this might be easier for me than for others as me being a male nerd with bad conversation skills severely limits the odds of somebody falling in love with me and thus the chance of having to handle difficult situations. (Right now my contingency plan for somebody falling in love with me is to tell her that I'm probably aromantic and then (if I think it could work) ask if she still wants a relationship (I've got a pretty high romance tolerance, so it might work)). But deciding whether one is aromantic is something everybody has to figure out for themselves as only you know what you feel.

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The problem is that all commercial sites will be responsible and can be sued for everything their users upload, so if this was a commercial site, you'd have to ensure nobody can upload copyrighted material for example through upload filters. Further information: https://juliareda.eu/2019/02/eu-copyright-final-text/

Is Arocalpse older than 3 years and does the new european copyright directive apply? If so, is there any plan on how to handle it when it eventually comes into effect? I just wondered about how Arocalypse is going to deal with this issue. Edit: Sorry, I just noticed that Arocalypse might be off the hook due to not being for profit and making any money.

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I've also been playing the clarinet for about eight years now. But why are there so few flutes here? In every there always seem to be twice as many flutes as clarinets (at least in Germany).

I just noticed that some emojis ( , ) aren't shown here . This can lead to some sentences which don't make any sense, so if there's an easy way to fi it, it should be fixed.

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