arorocks Posted May 12, 2017 Share Posted May 12, 2017 Ok so I have a best friend. She is amazing. We will move out together and go to college etc etc.. I was looking forward to spending my life with her but then the bomb dropped. She is a conservative christian and a romantic. She is going to get married. She said that will be her life goal. I won't spend my life with her because she wants to get married and date and find guys. I am going to be alone. Because when people get married, people want to put all their focus on their partner. God damn it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen of Spades Posted May 12, 2017 Share Posted May 12, 2017 I feel you. I've recently lost the life partner of my dreams, too, due to something that makes a life partnership between us impossible: he wants children in the future and can't imagine life without them, while I'm the exact opposite: I don't want to be a mother under any circumstances. I couldn't possibly imagine having him suffer years later due to this - I can't do this to him because I love him tremendously. If this friend of yours really is a true friend, she won't abandon you! There are also people who aren't brainwashed by amatonormativity! As I said, I do feel your pain. Because this is what I'm going through - for a while I really thought I, too, was what he looked for. What I had with him was the relationship I've been dreaming of for as long as I remember.. And as you can't find people like him on every corner, now I realise that the probability of my finding what I look for is rather slight... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arorocks Posted May 12, 2017 Author Share Posted May 12, 2017 Haha...I am 14 and i want to have a qpr with her and she has a bf lmfao.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen of Spades Posted May 12, 2017 Share Posted May 12, 2017 6 minutes ago, arorocks said: Haha...I am 14 and i want to have a qpr with her and she has a bf lmfao.. I thought you were 17-18 :-?. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
arorocks Posted May 12, 2017 Author Share Posted May 12, 2017 Just now, Ice Queen said: I thought you were 17-18 :-?. Lol not at all 1 minute ago, Ice Queen said: I thought you were 17-18 :-?. Lol not at all i just have my life planned out really well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queen of Spades Posted May 12, 2017 Share Posted May 12, 2017 2 minutes ago, arorocks said: Lol not at all Don't worry, I, too, am often perceived older than I actually am, based on the way I express myself when writing on websites :p. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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