Isa1116 Posted November 11, 2023 Share Posted November 11, 2023 My brother got payed $90 in Amazon gift cards after reffing my Volleyball tournament. He said I did good and he will get me something off Amazon. Idk what to get but I kinda want something that shows subtle aro, ace or agender pride. I was wondering if anyone has a link to something or a search I can put in. I don't really want my brother to know it's a pride thing because he might judge me so if the title of the thing doesn't say lgbtqia+ words, that'd be great. If no one can find that I'll just figure it out on my own or smth. Thx :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hemogoblin Posted November 11, 2023 Share Posted November 11, 2023 (edited) So I would search for pride-based colors (green, green and white, green and black, green and purple, purple, purple and black, etc.) of things you like or want (lanyard, keychain, bookmark, bracelet, headband, pin, leg warmers, socks, earrings, stickers, etc.). Ex. Green lanyard Ex. Purple and black jewelry Congrats on doing well! Edited November 11, 2023 by hemogoblin 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isa1116 Posted November 11, 2023 Author Share Posted November 11, 2023 5 hours ago, hemogoblin said: So I would search for pride-based colors (green, green and white, green and black, green and purple, purple, purple and black, etc.) of things you like or want (lanyard, keychain, bookmark, bracelet, headband, pin, leg warmers, socks, earrings, stickers, etc.). Ex. Green lanyard Ex. Purple and black jewelry Congrats on doing well! Tysm for the suggestion but I still haven't found anything lol 🙃 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OttRInvy Posted November 12, 2023 Share Posted November 12, 2023 I would have made the same suggestion as hemogoblin, but it doesn't surprise me too much you're having a hard time with finding something that has all the color combinations and you like the design and it's something you actually want. Is there anyway you can ask your brother to give you the code or gift card link or w/e so you can buy it on your own account? There's definitely some really cool subtle aroace & agender designs (I looked specifically at phone cases), but they're pretty much all going to be labeled as such in the title. So if you don't want him to know that, you'd have to find a way to be able to just buy it yourself. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hemogoblin Posted November 12, 2023 Share Posted November 12, 2023 2 hours ago, Isa1116 said: Tysm for the suggestion but I still haven't found anything lol 🙃 Well, what kind of thing do you have in mind? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isa1116 Posted November 12, 2023 Author Share Posted November 12, 2023 4 hours ago, hemogoblin said: Well, what kind of thing do you have in mind? An agender necklace, 2 pins giving off aro and ace vibes and an aroace snake pin. I want the necklace because I don't have any agender things but my brother doesn't know and idk if I wanna come out yet. I keep thinking my brother was joking about getting me something but I hope not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hemogoblin Posted November 13, 2023 Share Posted November 13, 2023 (edited) Oh, those are very cool! Good choices. Unfortunately, yeah, the more specific ideas you have, the harder it's going to be to find something. It's really hard for people to market subtle pride stuff because...how are you supposed to advertise it without mentioning it? D: Here's some things I found for you to peruse. Null/agender vibes necklace: https://www.amazon.com/Surly-Ramics-Symbol-Ceramic-Pendant-Necklace Ace moth vibes: https://www.amazon.com/KAWADU-Steampunk-Fashion-Accessory-Backpacks https://www.amazon.com/GYAYU-Butterfly-Brooch-Enamel-Insect Aro moth vibes: https://www.amazon.com/Beautiful-Luna-Silver-Metal-Enamel https://www.amazon.com/Butterfly-Moth-Enamel-Pins-Backpack / https://www.amazon.com/Butterfly-Moth-Enamel-Pins-Backpack Ace hummingbird vibes: https://www.amazon.com/DUOWEI-Rhinestone-Hummingbird-Multicolor-gold-plated-stainless-steel Aro/ace hummingbird vibes: https://www.amazon.com/PinMart-Colorful-Hummingbird-Brooch-Jewelry Aro or agender snake vibes: https://www.amazon.com/Gothic-Enamel-Horror-Clothes-Accessories Not off your list: Aroace bee vibes: https://www.amazon.com/Tvoip-Fashion-Natural-Brooches-Vintage Aroace vibe ring: https://www.amazon.com/FLEX-Ring-Silicone-Changeable-Everyday/ Nope (agender/aro/ace vibes) pin: https://www.amazon.com/Nope-Alarm-Clock-Enamel-Lapel/ https://www.amazon.com/These-Are-Things-Heart-Enamel Aro frog vibes: https://www.amazon.com/Surly-Ramics-Ceramic-Pendant-Necklace-Green Edited November 13, 2023 by hemogoblin 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isa1116 Posted November 13, 2023 Author Share Posted November 13, 2023 2 hours ago, hemogoblin said: Oh, those are very cool! Good choices. Unfortunately, yeah, the more specific ideas you have, the harder it's going to be to find something. It's really hard for people to market subtle pride stuff because...how are you supposed to advertise it without mentioning it? D: Here's some things I found for you to peruse. Null/agender vibes necklace: https://www.amazon.com/Surly-Ramics-Symbol-Ceramic-Pendant-Necklace Ace moth vibes: https://www.amazon.com/KAWADU-Steampunk-Fashion-Accessory-Backpacks https://www.amazon.com/GYAYU-Butterfly-Brooch-Enamel-Insect Aro moth vibes: https://www.amazon.com/Beautiful-Luna-Silver-Metal-Enamel https://www.amazon.com/Butterfly-Moth-Enamel-Pins-Backpack / https://www.amazon.com/Butterfly-Moth-Enamel-Pins-Backpack Ace hummingbird vibes: https://www.amazon.com/DUOWEI-Rhinestone-Hummingbird-Multicolor-gold-plated-stainless-steel Aro/ace hummingbird vibes: https://www.amazon.com/PinMart-Colorful-Hummingbird-Brooch-Jewelry Aro or agender snake vibes: https://www.amazon.com/Gothic-Enamel-Horror-Clothes-Accessories Not off your list: Aroace bee vibes: https://www.amazon.com/Tvoip-Fashion-Natural-Brooches-Vintage Aroace vibe ring: https://www.amazon.com/FLEX-Ring-Silicone-Changeable-Everyday/ Nope (agender/aro/ace vibes) pin: https://www.amazon.com/Nope-Alarm-Clock-Enamel-Lapel/ https://www.amazon.com/These-Are-Things-Heart-Enamel Aro frog vibes: https://www.amazon.com/Surly-Ramics-Ceramic-Pendant-Necklace-Green Oh damn... Tysm! Some of these can't be shipped to my country and for some reason I had to put my thing to in the US to even use the links but I really liked the moth/butterfly pins and the necklace so tbose are now on my possible buys list! :) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hemogoblin Posted November 13, 2023 Share Posted November 13, 2023 Oop, sorry about that! I didn't even think of shipping location/destination issues! :o I'm glad it sounds like you do have some things on your list, though. That's good. =) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isa1116 Posted November 18, 2023 Author Share Posted November 18, 2023 On 11/12/2023 at 9:14 PM, hemogoblin said: Oop, sorry about that! I didn't even think of shipping location/destination issues! :o I'm glad it sounds like you do have some things on your list, though. That's good. =) Yooossshhhhhh, I think I finally know what to ask for! I found an aroace dog tag lol. But my brother said he still hasn't gotten payed and might just get payed 60 dollars? He never said if it was still gift cards or not tho, so...? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hemogoblin Posted November 18, 2023 Share Posted November 18, 2023 Ooh, awesome choice! I hope he keeps his word. :) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isa1116 Posted November 18, 2023 Author Share Posted November 18, 2023 6 hours ago, hemogoblin said: Ooh, awesome choice! I hope he keeps his word. :) It's like I gotta be nice to him until he gets it lol 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Isa1116 Posted November 21, 2023 Author Share Posted November 21, 2023 On 11/18/2023 at 12:34 AM, Isa1116 said: Yooossshhhhhh, I think I finally know what to ask for! I found an aroace dog tag lol. But my brother said he still hasn't gotten payed and might just get payed 60 dollars? He never said if it was still gift cards or not tho, so...? Lol, I found an agender one, it's cheaper, rated one point higher than the other one at 4.7 while the aroace one is 4.6. I kinda want it but I would still need to come out so probably not but yeh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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