Maybe the reason people say "you'll find someone someday" is just a big misunderstanding.

[SwiftySpeedy]

So I told a member of my family about my aromanticism and they said "you'll find someone someday" but it was just because she did not know I said aromantic and thought I said "a romantic".

[Ted guy]

I think its better if you keep it private.

I've thought about outing myself, but its true when they say "some things are better left unsaid"