Jack Ross Posted June 18, 2023 Share Posted June 18, 2023 Has anyone managed to have a sexual relationship despite being aromantic? If others have accomplished this, maybe I can, too. I have always been sexually attracted to women my age. I have also had women friends. But when I try to do anything, it falls apart. Although women expect romance, I am not interested in romance at all. Friends, yes. Sex, yes. Mixing the two to make romance? No. It doesn't work at all. The interaction goes like this: 1) I say to her: I like you. 2) She says to me: You like me? Well, let's see some romance. 3) I say: Huh? 4) She says: You don't like me at all. 5) I say: Untrue, I do like you. 6) She says: You must want to just be friends. 7) I say: No, I was thinking more along sexual lines. 8) She says: Well, show some romance. 9) I say: Huh? 10) She says, exasperated: We can be friends, but I am going to sleep with Mr. X over there, who can understand me. This has been going on for decades. Has anyone broken this endless loop of frustration? How did you do it? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lajwaro-allo Posted July 4, 2023 Share Posted July 4, 2023 Yes, but I'm feeling shy to narrate the tale. I just got here (after lurking for years) and I'm feeling self conscious. This being said , I'm HAPPY to see Aro-allo content 💚 and that Aro-allo people exist 😍💯💫 and that Aro-Allo people breathe🫶🏽🥺 and that Aro-Allo people live their day to day life . How beautiful. (Thinking that since I'm inspired I could copy paste what I just said as a positivity post for Aro-Allos) ( And when I say aro-allo, greysexies are free to identify , only you know if you're involved or not) 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jot-Aro Kujo Posted July 5, 2023 Share Posted July 5, 2023 Yeah. It's difficult, especially when you factor in other things like gender, ability to drive, race, etc., but it's possible. I find it works out best with other allo aro folks; I've got a close friend who's also aro and we've been fwb for a few years now. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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