Lunar Nova Posted May 10, 2023 Share Posted May 10, 2023 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CatNap Posted May 10, 2023 Share Posted May 10, 2023 What happened, Lunar? :( Did someone upset you? Want me to beat em' up? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lunar Nova Posted May 10, 2023 Author Share Posted May 10, 2023 (edited) 19 minutes ago, Eclipse said: What happened, Lunar? :( Did someone upset you? Want me to beat em' up? yeah, I apparently have been annoying my friend, but she hasn't told me, because from my POV I was worried because she and my other friend were being really quiet the past few days, and from my friend's side she felt like I was chasing her down (I wasn't intending it that way). I understand how this would have annoyed her, but she didn't come to me about it and say "hey your being kind of annoying, please stop doing this" instead of her doing it she had her other friend come and tell me. Ik she don't do well with confrontation, because she don't wanna upset me, but it kind of hurts that she doesn't trust me enough to tell me on her own. the next time I get to talk to her I'll just say, "I'm sorry i was being annoying. Though, I wish it were you who told me, I'm not mad at you, I'm just hurt" I've told them countless times that I sometimes dont pick up on certain things, and I dometimes need someone to be like "okay, your starting to be a bit annoying, please calm down" and they both agreed to tell me. so it just..hurts.. ive told her that i'd never get mad at her for her opinion or telling me to stop something, but I guess i'm just not trust worthy enough. No, you dont have to beat anyone up, 'clipse Edited May 10, 2023 by Lunar Nova Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CatNap Posted May 10, 2023 Share Posted May 10, 2023 2 minutes ago, Lunar Nova said: yeah, I apparently have been annoying my friend, but she hasn't told me, because from my POV I was worried because she and my other friend were being really quiet the past few days, and from my friend's side she felt like I was chasing her down (I wasn't intending it that way). I understand how this would have annoyed her, but she didn't come to me about it and say "hey your being kind of annoying, please stop doing this" instead of her doing it she had her other friend come and tell me. Ik she don't do well with confrontation, because she don't wanna upset me, but it kind of hurts that she doesn't trust me enough to tell me on her own. the next time I get to talk to her I'll just say, "I'm sorry i was being annoying. Though, I wish it were you who told me, I'm not mad at you, I'm just hurt" I've told them countless times that I sometimes dont pick up on certain things, and I dometimes need someone to be like "okay, your starting to be a bit annoying, please calm down" and they both agreed to tell me. so it just..hurts.. ive told her that i'd never get mad at her for her opinion or telling me to stop something, but I guess i'm just not trust worthy enough. No, you dont have to beat anyone up, 'clipse *Hugs, if comfortable* I'm so sorry to hear that. You're not annoying, not to me. You're just a really caring person, and you were worried about her. *pat pat* I'm sorry that happened to you. :( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lunar Nova Posted May 10, 2023 Author Share Posted May 10, 2023 (edited) 10 minutes ago, Eclipse said: *Hugs, if comfortable* I'm so sorry to hear that. You're not annoying, not to me. You're just a really caring person, and you were worried about her. *pat pat* I'm sorry that happened to you. :( *hugs* it's okay, thank you for that. I don't really understand...I've told them many times that if I'm being annoying towards them then to just tell me.. they've been quiet for about a week...if they found it annoying why did they not tell me right then and there..? and I'm a MAJOR overthinker, so this'll be on my mind for a while.. Edited May 10, 2023 by Lunar Nova Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CatNap Posted May 10, 2023 Share Posted May 10, 2023 2 minutes ago, Lunar Nova said: *hugs* it's okay, thank you for that. I don't really understand...I've told them many times that if I'm being annoying towards them then to just tell me.. they've been quiet for about a week..if they found it annoying why did they not tell me right then and there..? I don't know... I want to say their a jerk, but I have no right to say that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lunar Nova Posted May 10, 2023 Author Share Posted May 10, 2023 1 minute ago, Eclipse said: I don't know... I want to say their a jerk, but I have no right to say that. I don't even know what to do anymore. I might just sit away from my friend in 3rd and sit with my other two friends like I have been doing all week. if she gets on me for leaving our other 'friend' (its in quotes, because she's more of an acquaintance) by herself. I'll just say "I needed space and assumed you all did too." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CatNap Posted May 10, 2023 Share Posted May 10, 2023 Just now, Lunar Nova said: I don't even know what to do anymore. I might just sit away from my friend in 3rd and sit with my other two friends like I have been doing all week. if she gets on me for leaving our other 'friend' (its in quotes, because she's more of an acquaintance) by herself. I'll just say "I needed space and assumed you all did too." That sounds like it would be best. I've had something like this (though different) happen to me before. So you're not alone. You'll be fine. Eventually you'll make some better, pretty awesome friends, who will be by your side, and never find you annoying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lunar Nova Posted May 10, 2023 Author Share Posted May 10, 2023 1 minute ago, Eclipse said: That sounds like it would be best. I've had something like this (though different) happen to me before. So you're not alone. You'll be fine. Eventually you'll make some better, pretty awesome friends, who will be by your side, and never find you annoying. yeah, i spose so Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CatNap Posted May 10, 2023 Share Posted May 10, 2023 *Hugs* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lunar Nova Posted May 10, 2023 Author Share Posted May 10, 2023 *hugs* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HelloThere Posted May 11, 2023 Share Posted May 11, 2023 10 hours ago, Lunar Nova said: *hugs* it's okay, thank you for that. I don't really understand...I've told them many times that if I'm being annoying towards them then to just tell me.. they've been quiet for about a week...if they found it annoying why did they not tell me right then and there..? and I'm a MAJOR overthinker, so this'll be on my mind for a while.. Oh I can relate, I’m always worried what people think of me (at least if I respect them) and I always wonder if I’m just being a pain in the butt or if I’m just overreacting to every minor incident. I’m always overthinking everything, I panic when things get complicated and I hate it SO MUCH! I guess what I’m trying to say is, you aren’t alone. :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lunar Nova Posted May 11, 2023 Author Share Posted May 11, 2023 11 hours ago, HelloThere said: Oh I can relate, I’m always worried what people think of me (at least if I respect them) and I always wonder if I’m just being a pain in the butt or if I’m just overreacting to every minor incident. I’m always overthinking everything, I panic when things get complicated and I hate it SO MUCH! I guess what I’m trying to say is, you aren’t alone. :D its not very fun and often times people just shrug things like these off Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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