bi or gay

[Guest hyunsoo]

sooo my situation
I can think boys are cute, handsome, etc, and get turned on whenever i see smtn hot
for girls, I can think they are pretty, hot, cute but not get turned on.
if dating, I think I can date both genders? 

doesn't help that I study in an all boys school 

[AlwaysConfused]

You could be romantically attracted to both (biromantic) and be sexually attracted to boys (homosexual assuming you identify as male)

Or you could be gay, but just think that girls look nice. You don’t have to be attracted to someone and think they’re hot :)

Edited August 15, 2022 by AlwaysConfused

[Collie]

There is such a thing as "aesthetic attraction", which doesn't necessarily mean you are romantically or sexually attracted to them. You just think they look hella nice, with this type of attraction.

I identified as grey-biromantic for a long time before deciding I'm actually a lesbian. Explore your feelings in safe and appropriate ways, and you'll figure it out in time :) You can always identfy as "bi-curious" until you're sure