so I have these two friends I've been close with both of them for a pretty long time and they've started dating acouple months ago. i've always been kind of a third wheel for this friend when she wasn't allowed to go out alone,I wouldn't mind it at all i thought it was kind of fun. but with her other relationships she would only see her partner like once a week, the person she's dating now who's also my friend, all share about four classes and the PDA is just constant. it was fine at first but now I constantly have to watch them be all over eachother, all the time. It's causing me to avoid them. I care about both of them but sometimes it's just too much, many other people who arent aroace have also commented on it but I think i'm also just extra sensitive to it? does anyone have any ways they deal with having to watch PDA or any experiences like this?
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so I have these two friends I've been close with both of them for a pretty long time and they've started dating acouple months ago. i've always been kind of a third wheel for this friend when she wasn't allowed to go out alone,I wouldn't mind it at all i thought it was kind of fun. but with her other relationships she would only see her partner like once a week, the person she's dating now who's also my friend, all share about four classes and the PDA is just constant. it was fine at first but now I constantly have to watch them be all over eachother, all the time. It's causing me to avoid them. I care about both of them but sometimes it's just too much, many other people who arent aroace have also commented on it but I think i'm also just extra sensitive to it? does anyone have any ways they deal with having to watch PDA or any experiences like this?
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