Guest bigbug123 Posted June 2, 2021 Share Posted June 2, 2021 I wanted to get some opinions on what you guys think because I feel pretty confident about being ace but aro is a little bit trickier. I'm pretty convinced that all I'm really capable of feeling is a close emotional bond and I really desire for a close platonic bond. But I keep questioning myself because I keep remembering this guy I really really liked in highschool before the thought of ever being aro entered my mind. I wanted to be in a relationship with him (at the time) but I'm confused because the more I think about it the more I realize that I loved the "connection" I had with him. I felt like I could open up with him. I don't really have a solid grasp on what romantic attraction is...but I remember him asking me what it was I liked about him. And me being stupid said I liked him because he was nice. I don't know I guess this is more of a rant. I think I'm aro but then doubt all of it because I really really liked this guy but maybe that was just forced on me by society. Also, maybe this is more along the lines of asexuality, but before I started seeing him I really didn't know that couples had regular sex with one another. I genuinely thought that couples spent their time together just cuddling and like talking with each other. Help! Any thoughts? I know it's really up to me to decide but I would appreciate anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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