Am I aro?

[Guest Confused ace]

I'm ace, have been for a while. But I'm starting to question my romantic attraction now too. I've had crushes in the past but a good couple years have passed and I no longer feel romantic attraction like I have. I met someone who I would've considered perfect but I just want to be friends with them, nothing more. Does this make me aromantic?

[ry3435]

i suppose you could be abroromantic? or maybe just straight up aro, i had "crushes" on guys but now i've finally come to terms with the fact that im a lesbian

[Rainy Robin]

Romantic attraction is fluid just like sexual attraction, so it's possible you could be aro! It might be useful to check out the aroflux label as well and hear about the experiences of aroflux people to see if anything is relatable.