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i feel i should probably specify i have sensory issues so certain forns of physical contact i just don't like

i think you might be greyromantic or even abroromantic because what i've come to understand about allos is that because they have both romantic and sexual feelings they're really passionate since they have a mix, but in a lot of relationships what keeps the couple together is romantic attraction. basically what im trying to say is what you felt for that guy was probably strong romantic feelings, and depending on if you've had similiar experiences since then you are probably either abroromantic or greyromantic

i suppose you could be abroromantic? or maybe just straight up aro, i had "crushes" on guys but now i've finally come to terms with the fact that im a lesbian

it would probably be best to just tell him that he's a nice guy but you just don't feel the same oh and if there's a specific reason it would probably help to say it