I consider myself to be asexual, and I've never really doubted myself in that area. However, there are certain things I think about in bed, and sometimes when I do this I get "wet". Things that no-one would consider sexual, in any way. For example, the intense emotional loss a particular character in a book goes through when they lose their child. Things like that, that tug on the heartstrings. Now I've heard that guys can get a boner from playing video games, because anger is a strong emotion and strong emotions can cause an erection. I suppose what I've been doing is similar? When I think about these things, and I have a full-ish bladder, I feel a kind of pleasure rush through my middle (I once wondered if it was an orgasm, but I don't think it is). I don't like to try to poke and prod down there while I'm doing this though, so I suppose it's not really masturbating.
Anyway, I know it's quite weird, and I would never try to explain it to anyone in person. I'm wondering if anyone else does something similar. If not, I'm cool with being an anonymous weirdo.
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I consider myself to be asexual, and I've never really doubted myself in that area. However, there are certain things I think about in bed, and sometimes when I do this I get "wet". Things that no-one would consider sexual, in any way. For example, the intense emotional loss a particular character in a book goes through when they lose their child. Things like that, that tug on the heartstrings. Now I've heard that guys can get a boner from playing video games, because anger is a strong emotion and strong emotions can cause an erection. I suppose what I've been doing is similar? When I think about these things, and I have a full-ish bladder, I feel a kind of pleasure rush through my middle (I once wondered if it was an orgasm, but I don't think it is). I don't like to try to poke and prod down there while I'm doing this though, so I suppose it's not really masturbating.
Anyway, I know it's quite weird, and I would never try to explain it to anyone in person. I'm wondering if anyone else does something similar. If not, I'm cool with being an anonymous weirdo.
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