As the title says, Over the past year or two, I realized I might be on the aromantic spectrum. I’ve never been “interested” in the whole romance culture, and honestly find it to be a bit much, It also makes me uncomfortable to be around it. However, there have been 2 times, with 2 separate people years apart where I did fall in love with them. Even with them, I wasn’t into the whole “couple goals” type stuff, I enjoyed their companionship and sharing my life and interests/hobbies with them. I’m not interested in romance or a romantic relationship, and I wouldn’t rule it out but it’s also not something I actively seek out. Most of the time when I’ve tried dating people, I never really felt anything and just felt uncomfortable the entire time. As I said, I’ve only felt romantic attraction twice, other than that it’s been purely platonic and I honestly prefer QPPs and close friendships. I think I may be just extremely demi-romantic and extremely close to being fully aro. However, when I came out as Aro and started expressing how I think I may be aro/spec because I experience very very little romantic attraction, I was also told that there has to be something wrong with me because I’ve had relationships in the past, so I "can't be aro and probably just am too traumatized" I’m not really sure, am I arospec? Grayromantic? If anything, I feel like I'm 98% aromantic