What the title says. When I found out I was aro, it was easy to accept, in fact I was happy about it. I felt complete in a way. It felt like a massive relief that I'd never need to date anyone and everything that entails. A weight off my shoulders.
And yet.. I see so many people, here and other places online, that seem to hate being aro, or worse, hate themselves for being aro. I can understand that for some people it might come as a disapointment or be difficult to accept, but I never expected people to be so negative about it as they are. It's a bit disheartening to see so many people beating themselves up about it.