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I have no friends in my new class this year. I know it isn't a big deal but I am terrible with people. I can make friends, it can be hard or easy, but it is so hard to keep them for some reason? I have no idea what I am doing wrong but I know I am bad at feelings and stuff. I had a friend who told me about their problems and asked me to go to the counselors office with them the next day. I didn't go to school the next day (I think I was sick or smth) and I think that is when they started disliking me.

I honestly don't know what to do? I don't understand what is wrong with me and I've thought about getting it checked out but my parents would find out and idk it I want to go to a counselor because I'm scared.

My new class is pretty loud and it was making want to die even if school was only 2 hours. I wanted to cover my ears of leave the class but I don't want to be seen as 'the weird kid' or smth. I really don't want to go to school tomorrow because I feel like I won't be prepared even tho I am and I'm so scared I won't do good this year while my parents want me to get an award or smth.

Hiya! I'm Isa and I hope you have a great time here! I use they/it/any. :))))

Hii, I'm Isa, I use they/it/any and I hope you have a great time here! :)))

Hiya! I'm Isa and I use they/it/any and I hope you have an amazing time here! :)))

2 hours ago, glypharia.exe said:

Its the Angled Aroace flag I believe! 

Google describes it as: "An angled aroace is a individual that is both ace-spec and aro-spec (though not necessarily strictly aromantic and asexual) who experiences some form of attraction that they feel is significant enough to warrant a place alongside their aro-spec and ace-spec identities."

But these stickers are so cute!! Well done!

Oh wow thanks!

That might actually be me.....damn....tysm....

Anyone know what flag this is?

Hiiiii, I'm Isa and I hope you have a good time here! :)))

2 hours ago, DeathlyAngel said:

That made me really upset. He acted like he understood when he really didn't. Why are people like this?

Right? My brother said I should try a relationship at least once and I agreed but later said people who don't feel attraction are psychopaths... 🥲

On 8/17/2023 at 1:49 PM, Aether said:

Hi Isa and thank you! Also u have a badass name! 

Thx! U do too! :)))

Hii, I'm Isa, I use they/it but ny are fine and I hope you have fun here and discover who you are! :))

That's pretty messed up of them... I was talking to my brothers about me being aroace and idk exactly what he said but my brother said something along the lines of, "If you don't feel attraction you're a psychopath."

Maybe you can tell your friends that you have literally never had a crush or just make friends who actually respect you and your identity.

Hii, I'm Isa I use they/it but idc much and I hope you have a really good time here! :)))

Also, I think there is an art thread here somewhere 🤔 :)

Hiiiiiiya! I'm isa and I use they/it but I'm fine with any, I hope you have great time here! :)

I think I told people a bit too early in life. I told my siblings and cousin and they don't seem to get that it's a spectrum and say I'm not aroace. I think you should only tell people you know you can trust, which you did. :)

Aromanticism is a spectrum. And I think you are describing being lithromantic?  What I mean is, you can be aro and have crushes. :)

Hiii, I'm Isa, I use any pronouns but preferably they/it and I hope you have a really good time here! :)))))

Maybe you might want to be in a qpr? I think you should talk to your friend about it though. But what do you mean yiur chest hurts when talking to them?

Hello and welcome! I'm Isa and I hope you have a great time here! :) I also have internalized aroallophobia when I think I might be it. I'm still figuring myself out even though I've known I'm a-soec for awhile but congrats on figuring yourself out anyways! :))))

3 hours ago, Collie said:

 

 

https://picrew.me/en/image_maker/1918788

Thx for the link, I liked this one :)

I made this guy:

I have another but I can't fit it or smth :,( maybe I'll put them in l8r ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

That was fun! :))))

Awwwwww, they're so daymn adorable!!!!! :))))

Omg yassssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hiii, I'm Isa I use any pronouns but kinda prefer they/it. It is nice to meet you and I hope you have a good time here! :)

I think I might have adhd, asd or smth like that but I've never been diagnosed so idk if I should be here? Sorry 😞.