Isa1116

Hiya! I'm Isa and I hope you can have a fun time here! :)))))))

8 hours ago, Maybe Mae said:

It's nebularomantic! https://www.lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Nebularomantic

 

Aroaceflux is still missing from the set because there's so many different versions of the flag but I might do that one in the future 

Lol, I thought they kinda looked the same 😅

Idek how lol 🥲

How did I even think these ar the same....

Thanks for the correction tho! :)

12 hours ago, dordor said:

well i actually tried, after a few month one of them really made me feel good about it, he sent me aro wallpapers, made healthy aro jokes etc. but the other just kept pretending i had never told them about it. well these past weeks i havent been in touch with them much, i really hope they have changed thier mind for better when uni starts.

It's nice to hear you have a friend who is being nice about it! :) And yea, I hope that other friend of yours can change their mind about it :)

1 hour ago, dordor said:

thanks, i know they say such things with good intentions and lack of knowledge but it still hurts

Maybe you could try talking to them about it? Tell them how it made you feel? And if they keep saying stuff like that then they probably aren't the greatest friend y'know?

1 hour ago, mordo said:

honestly being aroace and having friends obsessed with dating and relationships it hit a little too close to home, saw that panel before i read the comic and it tore me apart lol

The point that we just add lol at the end to make it less awkward or sad or smth else like that lol.

Okay, but that look he gave when he gave when that guy (sorry I don't read these so idk anyone's names) basically said he isn’t normal just hit me so hard it gave me the feels lol 🥲

Hiya! You can call me Isa and I hope you have fun here! :) I'm really sorry that some of your friend said that about you 😔

I had a field trip today and I used like 20 bucks to get these...it was my brothers money....

It seems like a waste of money but I am kinda using them to show pride. Y'know how a black ring on the right middle finger can show you are ace and a white ring and left middle finger for aro? And grey on either finger for greyaro and grey ace? Well, I thought that since the ring I got is metallic I and kinda shifts colours I could use it to show being aroaceflux (or just other a-spec labels in general). I think this could catch on tbh, I don't think there are a lot of ways to show pride for many microlabels.

And the necklace is kinda self-explanatory, it has an arrow on it.

I actually really like the idea I had for the ring thing lol. But if anyone could tell me other ways to show subtle pride for aspec labels, that'd be great :)

Mine is just my nickname and birthday. I think I might change it but idk what to change it to.

I think that fits tbh. You might be a-spec you choose the labels that fit. I identified as a-spec a a pretty young age. Also, the last few sentences kinda give autosexual vibes? Idk lol

Hiiiiiio, I'm Isa and I hope you have a really good time here! :)

1 hour ago, hemogoblin said:

Generally, I did enjoy the movie, but that scene definitely stung. The scene wasn't long and it wasn't harped on - it took up a few minutes of the overall movie - but yeah, it is still there. And any romance-repulsed aros should know that it's 100% a "true love" story and thus super amatonormative.

Normally I don't really mind romance but like the last week I've been really bored of it lol

I've kinda wanted to see the movie but leaving that there's a scene like that makes me kinda sad... 🥲

Honestly, maybe just go talk to them? Why exactly are you two not talking? Maybe ask about it?

Maybe aplatonic? The lack of platonic attraction? Or maybe it is something on that spectrum?

I've seen you around here before! Welcome back! :)))

Whoa... I feel like that ALL the time! Tho my opinions on sex change all the time. Sometimes I'm sex-positive, sometimes I'm repulsed, and most of the time idc about it. It made me really question if I was ace-soec or not because I thought it was just puberty (I still think it might be). Either way I think I can kinda relate to what you are saying.

4 hours ago, Opal said:

omgg i love these

 do you guys know what this is?

I think it is the aroaceflux flag. :)

1 hour ago, NVLL said:

but theres 1 more symbol which u havent mentioned that looks like this

I have seen it before but I kind of just put it with the other ones ig? I probably should have said sorry 😅. Thx anyways tho! :)

I know about the circle with the line like 🚫or ⛔. And I think I heard about a clear ring on a necklace? But I don't think I can get one of those for now, are there any other subtle symbols I can use to say I'm agender? I wanna make little stickers of aroace agender and put it in my phonecase. :))))

I don't really know what you should do since I have no experience but maybe casually bring up qprs and say you saw it on the internet or smth and see what he thinks of them? Idrk but maybe a variation of that? Hope that helped. :)

I'm kinda surprised no one has really posted here. So hi

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At school the teacher asked us to answer some questions. One of the questions was what our pronouns were. I put down she/her but said any are fine, even tho I don't specifically use those pronouns. Now everyone will still call me that because I was to scared to take my damn chance.

I think this sounds a lot like cupioromantic but also lithromantic or orchidromantic? The cupioromantic from you saying you wanted a relationship and lithromantic or orchidromantic because you say you don't want a relationship anymore/fell out if love.

Either way I think you are probably arospec but you use what labels you want! :)