Isa1116

On 11/18/2023 at 12:34 AM, Isa1116 said:

Yooossshhhhhh, I think I finally know what to ask for!

I found an aroace dog tag lol.

But my brother said he still hasn't gotten payed and might just get payed 60 dollars? He never said if it was still gift cards or not tho, so...?

Lol, I found an agender one, it's cheaper, rated one point higher than the other one at 4.7 while the aroace one is 4.6. I kinda want it but I would still need to come out so probably not but yeh

Hiya! I'm Isa, I use they/it, I'm aroaceflux, I like astronomy and I hope you have a great time here! :))))

6 hours ago, hemogoblin said:

Ooh, awesome choice! I hope he keeps his word. :)

It's like I gotta be nice to him until he gets it lol

On 11/12/2023 at 9:14 PM, hemogoblin said:

Oop, sorry about that! I didn't even think of shipping location/destination issues! :o I'm glad it sounds like you do have some things on your list, though. That's good. =)

Yooossshhhhhh, I think I finally know what to ask for!

I found an aroace dog tag lol.

But my brother said he still hasn't gotten payed and might just get payed 60 dollars? He never said if it was still gift cards or not tho, so...?

Hiii, I'm Isa and nice to meet you! :)

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What happens when we count to a million? Does it just end?!?!?

I think I've decided against it but I still don't know if I should come out when my brother ask what I want from Amazon.

Hiiiiiiiiiiii, nice to meet ya :) Cool to see another agender!

My birthday is tomorrow and I think I might come out to my siblings (or just one) as agender. My brother says he will get me something off Amazon and I found a necklace that show the agender symbol. I want it but if I ask my brother for it he will see the listing and know. I kinda want to tell him but based on what happened when I came out as aroace (I did that way too early btw 🥲) idk if I should. I could get something aroace themed but I don't have any agender things and I don't want my brother to think I'm weird getting pride things or that I'm making it my whole personality. I just have no idea if I should come out or maybe just reject the offer entirely.

When I came out the reactions were mixed, they said 'ok', 'you can't love?', 'I've heard of that!', 'Isn't that one youtuber like that?', it was odd. The one thats gonna get me smth was ok about it but I still don't know. Once, I said smth about growing up with two older brothers made me act like a guy and I kinda made a joke about how it's their fault my family thinks I'm weird for not being girly. I forgot exactly what I said but I said something about tomboy and eventually they started joking about how I 'might be trans' or 'they have another brother'. The way they said it made me feel like they don't like trans people. My younger older brother (the second child) has made a lot of transphobic joke and I can't even tell if he's serious. My older is better but still, I don't know if I can trust them with my information. I'm oddly really scared.

Sorry for the rant and probably my longest post.

2 hours ago, hemogoblin said:

Oh, those are very cool! Good choices. Unfortunately, yeah, the more specific ideas you have, the harder it's going to be to find something. It's really hard for people to market subtle pride stuff because...how are you supposed to advertise it without mentioning it? D:

Here's some things I found for you to peruse.

Null/agender vibes necklace: https://www.amazon.com/Surly-Ramics-Symbol-Ceramic-Pendant-Necklace

Ace moth vibes: https://www.amazon.com/KAWADU-Steampunk-Fashion-Accessory-Backpacks

https://www.amazon.com/GYAYU-Butterfly-Brooch-Enamel-Insect

Aro moth vibes: https://www.amazon.com/Beautiful-Luna-Silver-Metal-Enamel

https://www.amazon.com/Butterfly-Moth-Enamel-Pins-Backpack / https://www.amazon.com/Butterfly-Moth-Enamel-Pins-Backpack

Ace hummingbird vibes: https://www.amazon.com/DUOWEI-Rhinestone-Hummingbird-Multicolor-gold-plated-stainless-steel

Aro/ace hummingbird vibes: https://www.amazon.com/PinMart-Colorful-Hummingbird-Brooch-Jewelry

Aro or agender snake vibes: https://www.amazon.com/Gothic-Enamel-Horror-Clothes-Accessories

Not off your list:

Aroace bee vibes: https://www.amazon.com/Tvoip-Fashion-Natural-Brooches-Vintage

Aroace vibe ring: https://www.amazon.com/FLEX-Ring-Silicone-Changeable-Everyday/

Nope (agender/aro/ace vibes) pin: https://www.amazon.com/Nope-Alarm-Clock-Enamel-Lapel/

https://www.amazon.com/These-Are-Things-Heart-Enamel

Aro frog vibes: https://www.amazon.com/Surly-Ramics-Ceramic-Pendant-Necklace-Green

Oh damn... Tysm! Some of these can't be shipped to my country and for some reason I had to put my thing to in the US to even use the links but I really liked the moth/butterfly pins and the necklace so tbose are now on my possible buys list! :)

4 hours ago, hemogoblin said:

Well, what kind of thing do you have in mind?

An agender necklace, 2 pins giving off aro and ace vibes and an aroace snake pin.

I want the necklace because I don't have any agender things but my brother doesn't know and idk if I wanna come out yet.

I keep thinking my brother was joking about getting me something but I hope not.

5 hours ago, hemogoblin said:

So I would search for pride-based colors (green, green and white, green and black, green and purple, purple, purple and black, etc.) of things you like or want (lanyard, keychain, bookmark, bracelet, headband, pin, leg warmers, socks, earrings, stickers, etc.). 

Ex. Green lanyard

Ex. Purple and black jewelry

Congrats on doing well!

Tysm for the suggestion but I still haven't found anything lol 🙃

My brother got payed $90 in Amazon gift cards after reffing my Volleyball tournament. He said I did good and he will get me something off Amazon. Idk what to get but I kinda want something that shows subtle aro, ace or agender pride. I was wondering if anyone has a link to something or a search I can put in. I don't really want my brother to know it's a pride thing because he might judge me so if the title of the thing doesn't say lgbtqia+ words, that'd be great. If no one can find that I'll just figure it out on my own or smth. Thx :)

Welcome back! I feel like I've seen you here before but hi lol.

Hiyaaaaaa, nice to meet up! I'm Isa and I hope you have a good time here! 😁

Heyaaa, I'm Isa and I hope ya have a nice time here! :)))

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I was explaining rhetorical to someone

Hiii, I'm Isa and I hope you are a amazing time here!! :)))))

My little sister made me a key chain in her class and seems to have made it look like the trans flag. She taught me how to make my own and I made an aroace flag one lol. Makes me happy :).

The one that looks like the trans flag isn't in order and I didn't have a light blue bead so I just used a green one lol 🥲

This thing :3

And this one I made but am now too scared to actually use lol 🥲

Maybe you could just say you are focused on studies or smth? If they ask about it at least if they ask y'know? Maybe just try not to engage in those topics? Idk know if that helps sorry.

Hiya! I'm Isa, I use they/it and I hope you have a great time here!! :)))))))))

I also like drawing and writing too lol :)

Hiya! I'm Isa and I hope u have a fun time here! :)

Also, that whole thing you said about losing interest in a month is kinda giving me lithromantic vibes but idk lol :)

13 hours ago, Maybe Mae said:

They do look really similar

anyways this reminded me that I hadnt done the aroaceflux flag yet:

Oh damn! Thank you for making that lol :))))

Hiya! I'm Isa and I hope you have a great time here! I use they/it and I'm also lithromantic! :)