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MaxIsCosmic

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  1. 19 hours ago, hemogoblin said:

    Hey, how did it go (if you want to answer)? Have things gotten better? <3

    We still get called slurs sometimes but it’s a lot less we got some help from the one of the groups and they got the person who recorded the original video suspended. I feel a lot better and he seems happier thank you so much for the advice I feel like I can be myself in the school without as much shame. 

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  2. On 10/28/2023 at 10:43 PM, hemogoblin said:

    Are your parents safe or are his parents safe? Having your parents escalate this up the ladder to the superintendent may net more effective results. (You and him can try reaching out to the superintendent yourselves, but having adults do it tends to be more effective because a lot of adults don't respect that kids are people who deserve to be listened to, unfortunately).

    Are there any local or local-ish queer groups/orgs that you can find? Also any racial equality or black empowerment groups/orgs? Reach out to them for their support. They should have a good idea of the resources in your area or be able to help advocate for you. I'm sorry you and your boyfriend are going through this really scary situation. It's not at all okay.

    My parents are definitely not safe and he only has his mom and we’re not entirely sure about her. We looked into queer and racial empowerment groups and we are going to some on Thursday thank you! 

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  3. I am a sophomore and I have a boyfriend who is the same age I am. I am white and he is black (this is important context for later). we are both on the aro spectrum and we are together a lot of the time in and outside of school. In my school district we have a free period at the end of the day for homework and we can pick what class want to go to. Him and I went to my math classroom to work on homework together. He had an audition for marching band after school and I could see he was nervous so I gave him a hug to help him calm down. Apparently someone recorded our hug without our permission and posted it to the internet with the caption “gay ass n*****” directed at my boyfriend. And apparently a lot of our school saw it because now we are both getting called the f slur in the hallways all the time and we brushed it off at first because it’s just something that comes with being openly gay (or bi in his case) but it hasn’t stopped at all and it’s kinda getting to me, I tried to report it to my school but they just accused me of making out with him in the school bathroom (which I have never done) and said if I didn’t want to be called that I should do that. Now i don’t know what to do I feel bad that he is getting called slur’s because of me even if I didn’t do anything on purpose he says he doesn’t blame me but is full feel bad plus I feel confused and angry that the school made up stories about us making out it feels kinda gross. I have kissed home before but that is at my house and not school even less the school bathroom. Is there any advice you can give me on what I should do if anything?

  4. I don’t know where else to say but i don’t know any other Demi-ro people irl so I guess here is the best place. So I had a guy give me his number after a group project and I told him I wasn’t interested but that we could still be friends and instead of respecting that he got very defensive and pressured me to say what i didn’t like about him, and I know I don’t owe him an explanation as to why i don’t want to go out but after a lot of pressing from him I told him I was Demi-ro and I also explained what it was. I guess I kinda expected him to respect that answer but he didn’t and just asked why he couldn’t be the exception and that I was just playing hard or get and using it as an excuse. It was just kind of invalidating and disrespectful I tried to explain that’s not how it works but after he said he didn’t care and that it was made up I decided he wasn’t worth my time and just ran away. I’m just kind of annoyed that people can just respect others. 

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  5. 16 hours ago, Jot-Aro Kujo said:

    Hey, this is something you need to talk to an adult in those kids’ lives about. That’s sexual assault, regardless of whether the two of them are aware of it or not, and it needs to be dealt with right away. Tell the grandparents, a teacher, etc. Best of luck to your brother, I’m so sorry that’s happening to him. 

    I know it is and I told my nana and my mom but they won’t do anything I kinda knew it was coming bc it’s what they did for me that’s why I decided I would take things into my own hands bc I’m not going to let him get hurt like I did. 

  6. Tysm for making this I’ve had this in my mind for awhile and I just need to vent it,  so my little brother (8 years old) got pantsed by a close “friend” of his at our grandparents house i believe she was over to stay the night and she took a picture of his private parts without his consent she is a few years older then him and he told me a full week after this happened he told he said no and she did it anyway, this isn’t the first time something like this has happened either she tries to go in the bathroom with him and the only way he can go in by himself is if I hold her arm and let him lock the door the only reason I held back from telling her she wasn’t welcome anymore was bc she was a kid and maybe she didn’t know better. but there have been enough chances and I’m mad like really mad my grandparents live 2 hrs away by car and I am a few days away from getting my motorcycle endorsement and I’m going to ride up and give her a piece of my mind I was abused as a kid an no way in hell am I going to let that happen to my brother.

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  7. 2 hours ago, HelloThere said:

    I didn’t know that would be this fun. XD

    Is there like an owl house version of this?!

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    You mean like something where you Can personalize owl house characters? 

  8. For context LGBallT’s a little characters made out of pride flags and in the shape of circles here is the link to make ur’s if you want to (also if you want other pride flags click on the paint brush and it will present you with a lot of colors if you click on the colors it will give you other pride flags) (https://picrew.me/en/image_maker/1304563

    also here is mine :)

     

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  9. 5 minutes ago, HelloThere said:

    You have to go to the funeral of Ron DeSantis in 5 years instead.

    I wish I could actually focus on my interests and that they wouldn’t go under in less than 5 months.

    You can focus on your interest but only your interest for example if you don’t like a subject in school you will literally learn nothing and fail the class

     

    I wish I could get testosterone today 

  10. The waffles are leftover from last week. 
     

    I wish that I didn’t have to go to a stupid wedding out of state for someone I don’t even know and who is homophobic.

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