karnzter

I don't really mind at all, actually. I just replied to him the same things I always answer back in regards to that question (I don't have the time for that/not now/it's too early for that/I got my job, family and money to worry more). Also, I'm considering possibly becoming a single parent by choice in the distant future, so the whole kids thing is just fine with me (it's the life meta and traditions circulating on the L, R, M, C and F words that bothers me more).

Yeah... sometimes it isn't easy to get beyond the whole romance-coded nature of those things, and even tougher when we're conflicted about maybe, kinda, just a little bit wanting some of those things and being massively freaked out by how society categorizes those things.  Especially when you get pressure from family/friends/society about getting your ass back in line and doing what everyone else is doing.  It's enough to do your head in, and it gets exhausting trying to explain yourself all the time.

However things work out, I'm pretty sure you've got it together!  You just seem like a together sort of person.

Thank you. Everyone knows that I'm the only one of the 8 older cousins so far that hasn't been in a relationship. But not all of them know that I just have no plans to be in one for being a predominantly repulsed complex gray aro gray ace; something they all won't be happy to hear, deny, criticize and/or get confused with.