Samu
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I have been having gender crisis these days and I link my gender expression with gender identity so much that it gets very very confusing. I also want people to perceive me either as a boy or in an androgynous way and I am kinda desperate for them to use he/him pronouns on me, but I’m not out to anyone irl yet :(
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Hello, I’m new on the site and I saw your status. I just wanted to tell you that you can write me if you need to talk. I was also not out about my gender expression and identity I was so scared to even consider I was non-binary or gender fluid. This year I finally told one of my friends and she was kind and understanding she is the first person to ever ask me what pronouns I preferred and it was liberating. What I mean to say is that it gets better, everyone has their own process and we have to respect ourselves too. Coming out is hard and you can get bad reactions from people but I assure you you will also get positive and supportive ones and those are the ones that matter. Don’t give up!
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@Max_Ali@IkarusI’m sorry for the late reply. Both of your answers are very much appreciated.
Some time has passed and I’m already out to some people in my life as a transmasc non binary person, and as you said Max, it is very liberating. I was lucky people around me were pretty understanding about it from the beginning, that made it easier for me to truly be myself. It does get better :)
Regarding your question, Ikarus, for me, looking androgynous is being perceived as both a man and a woman at the same time (somehow). Like when people are confused and they cannot tell what my gender is.
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Woahhh, I’ve met someone not long ago, but I already feel so aesthetically and emotionally attracted to them. This person is just so cool and awesome and I’d like us to have a QPR.
