I used to feel like a dead person for not feeling in the way I saw other people feeling in terms of romance and general human on human connectivity. Eventually, thankfully, I came to a place where I know everyone is different and It's ok to be me.
What about a state update? As in Solid, Liquid, Gas, Plasma, Bose-Einstein Condensate, Photonic Matter, Supserconductive, Supersolid, Superliquid or Fermionic Condensate.