Philotes
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I recently met someone and we get along rather well, apart from the fact that she is so frickin romance oriented. She is always looking for a relationship and is somehow always in love.
About a week ago we were playing 'would you rather' with a couple of friends (including her) and I got the question 'would you rather never have sex again or would you rather never find true love?'. Well for my aromantic bisexual (and virgin but hey I really want to have sex) ass that was an easy answer, but she then gave me a 30 min lecture about why true love was the best thing in the entire world and that it was incredibly sad that I would pick something as horrible as sex over the amazing concept of true romantic love. I am still annoyed by it
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A 30 min lecture? Really?
God. Unfortunately, this is typical somehow. I once had a friend who had a very similar...let's say mindset about romance.
She pushed the idea of "the one" on endlessly, then had a GF and started to talk bad about people who wanted a "friends with benefits" situation and whatnot. I kind of froze on the inside, never came out to her and kept my thoughts to myself (our relationship wasn't very close anymore at this point). I only told her she should let people do what they want as long as no one gets hurt. Anyway, I understand it bugs you. If this goes on, you should really tell her how you feel (unless you already did so).
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