Darkraven77 Posted January 14 Share Posted January 14 So, I would see this guy at my college who is very good-looking and I get nervous around him and I blush and get excited and I would think about him a little bit but I don't think that I feel romantic attraction towards it or if it is romantic attraction and I'm lying to myself. I'm confused. Any advice here? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest FunnyIndividual(greyro) Posted January 15 Share Posted January 15 Thats certainly not romantic attraction, thats probably a crush though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darkraven77 Posted January 15 Author Share Posted January 15 What kind of crush? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
such Posted January 16 Share Posted January 16 It's possible to find someone good-looking and get that nervousness and excitement without it necessarily being a romantic/sexual crush. It might help to ask yourself when you are around them, what do you want to do? Do you feel compelled to touch, kiss or be physically closer to them? - I think that's a sign of physical attraction Do you want to get to know them? Spend more time with them? Do you want to be their friend? - Could be platonic attraction/squish Do you want to go on a date with them? Could you imagine dating them and being in a relationship? Do you want them to notice you romantically? - Could be romantic attraction Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Darkraven77 Posted January 20 Author Share Posted January 20 Oh okay. More like getting to know them. I've had romantic thoughts but that didn't go anywhere. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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