The last few days the instagram algorithm started showing me homo and transphobic posts & reels with mean comments.
At first, I only read them and acknowledged how awful they are.
But now I think the comments have really gotten into my head and I hate it.
I wanted to explain two headcanons in a fanfic of mine. One character I headcanon as demiromantic and the other as aromantic but in a queer platonic relationship.
While I was writing that into the footnotes, I suddenly though: [warning: homophobia, acephobia] "ugh demiromantic? And what is a queer platonic relationship? They just make stuff up nowadays".
AND I REALLY JUST WENT: oh yeah, I should probably not write that in the footnotes.
I hate everything about that thought process.
Now I decided to write this headcanon info into my fanfic notes anyway because whe cant let the homophobes win.
But it scares me, how easily I was influenced for a few moments there. And its still there, in my head, these awful thoughts, even though they arent mine.
Has anyone ever head a similar experience? How can I stop adopting mean comments?
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The last few days the instagram algorithm started showing me homo and transphobic posts & reels with mean comments.
At first, I only read them and acknowledged how awful they are.
But now I think the comments have really gotten into my head and I hate it.
I wanted to explain two headcanons in a fanfic of mine. One character I headcanon as demiromantic and the other as aromantic but in a queer platonic relationship.
While I was writing that into the footnotes, I suddenly though: [warning: homophobia, acephobia] "ugh demiromantic? And what is a queer platonic relationship? They just make stuff up nowadays".
AND I REALLY JUST WENT: oh yeah, I should probably not write that in the footnotes.
I hate everything about that thought process.
Now I decided to write this headcanon info into my fanfic notes anyway because whe cant let the homophobes win.
But it scares me, how easily I was influenced for a few moments there. And its still there, in my head, these awful thoughts, even though they arent mine.
Has anyone ever head a similar experience? How can I stop adopting mean comments?
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