Tallow Posted September 24, 2022 Share Posted September 24, 2022 (edited) So I've been out as ace for about 4 months now, and I've recently began wondering if I'm on the aro-spec too. I do have my doubts though, considering I've been in two short relationships back to back, with at least some romantic attraction in those. I'm confused as to if it was all romantic attraction or if it was mostly sensual/aesthetic or whatever, but no matter. Here's what I know: - I've had to fake having crushes to fit in. - I didn't have a crush or like anyone until 8th grade (when the two back to back relationships were) and I haven't liked anyone since. - I thought I was omnisexual/romantic because I felt the same about everyone, which was nothing. - Never been in love/experienced intense romantic attraction. - Cannot imagine myself in a romantic marriage, can with a platonic one. - I get romance repulsed sometimes. - Kissing is gross, in a romantic sense or not. - Some aro-spec labels feel right, but I feel bad fully committing to anything considering I change my mind about my romantic orientation every day. A note: I am still pretty young, so I might just not have enough experience with this yet. I am also autistic, which might be messing with some things. If you have anything that could help, please let me know! Edited September 24, 2022 by Tallow Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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