S*x Repulsed Allosexual?

[Guest Andy]

Hi. I'm aro, I know that for sure. I've also thought I was ace for a long time. But now I'm not so sure. 

I think I do feel sexual attraction, but I also hate the thought of sex in an actual sense. When I look at someone I can think, "they are attractive, I'd like to be with them sexually." But most of the time, the thought of sex absolutely disgusts me.

Can I be a (mostly?) sex repulsed allosexual person? Or are there any other things this could be? Am I ace?

[Guest AceInSpace]

If you think "They're attractive, I'd like to be with them sexually" in a theoretical sense, you could be ace as far as I know. Because this scenary would be fictional. Also do you think "they are pretty I can see why people would like to be with them sexually" or specifically you want to be with them like that? Also I do think allosexual people can be sex-repulsed, but I'm not sure

[Jedi]

Within the broad range of human emotion, I think anything is possible. And also it is worth to keep in mind that the labels are created for our use and are in no way measurable natural laws. With that in mind, I can't actually tell you could be defined as ace and your sexual attraction redefined as something else, or if you would be considered allo with some complications. But I can ask some leading questions and see if we can sort something out a little bit. 

So, you sometimes have the feeling that you want to be with a person sexually, but also the thought of sex is disgusting to you. So, what does 'being with someone sexually' mean to you? And, what part of the idea of sex is it that gives you the disgust reaction?

[Badger for the Aros]

This sort of sounds like you might be lithsexual. Basically, you're sexually attracted to people, but you don't want the feelings reciprocated. I'm not an expert but here's a label I'd you think it might fit.