Imagine two people who are very much aesthetically and sensually attracted to each other. They are best friends / in a QPR. They regularly engage in kissing and cuddling, etc, traditionally romantic stuff. How would this be different from a traditional allo romantic relationship?
If i were to try and answer this, I’d say the only difference would be that they don’t experience “romantic attraction” for each other… But that’s the thing! I have no idea what that means, or exactly how different the lack of romantic attraction would cause this relationship to be from a romantic one. (Maybe that’s a sign that I’m aro haha).
The reason I’m asking this is because Ive been questioning how aro I am and the above situation seems pretty desirable to me.
(I do experience aesthetic, sensual, and platonic attraction. I also think I may be either bellusromantic or cupioromantic. I am pretty interested in kissing in a non-romantic context. Additionally. at some point I might try having a romantic relationship just to see what it’s like, since I’ve never been in one before.)
So because of all this, I feel very not-aro, because so many components of my experience / (hypothetically) desired relationship are similar to the allo experience. So I’m asking this question to find out just how far from allo-ness I am.
What do you guys think?