bluster kong

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bluster kong

Feeling like I’m not aro enough?

I recently discovered I’m aro but I feel as if I’m not aro enough because I’m not completely against the idea of romance. To specify, I don’t feel romantic attraction—although that could change as I get older—but I’m not really against the idea of physical affection like cuddling or marriage (although I don’t really see myself ever getting married). I know that stuff is normal and aromanticism is a spectrum but I still can’t help but feeling like I’m doing it wrong, if that makes any sense at all
- August 4, 2023
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1. Picklethewickle
  
  Ah, the good ol' "Not good enough" feelings. The joys of being a poorly understood minority, where all that's known about us is a very tiny box. You feel like that box is all there is, and you have to fit inside. Being aromantic doesn't mean you have to hate romance. It doesn't mean you have to reject all forms of affection. Aromanticism is just what you said, that you don't feel romantic attraction. You don't have to prove anything, or fit in, or keep up. Just live how you want to live.
  
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