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1 hour ago, The Aro Mando Echo said:

Hello, I just found this! I am an aro/ace teen who loves.. a lot of nerdy things... (Star Wars, Harry Potter, LOTR..etc..) I have told my sister and friends about my orientation (Or lack of, I guess), but I'm still waiting on telling my parents. 😅 

I actually have been questioning whether I was ace for a while (before I knew aromantics were a thing) and I finally came to terms with the fact at the beginning of HS. I am interested to see what experiences my fellow aros and aro-specs have had, in a world where seemingly everything is romantic or sexual... sigh...

Hi! It's nice to meet you! I'm Moon. I'd be intrested in sharing and hearing experiences of fellow aro's and aro-spec people as well. I hope you enjoy your stay here. :)

4 minutes ago, KoconutBounty said:

i can tell-

my lunch shift begins in about 3 minutes. ill be back at around 12:13 pm (EST)

Alright. See ya later. Bye!

Just now, KoconutBounty said:

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I am very concerned for that friend-

1 minute ago, KoconutBounty said:

until now ig lol

but thats interesting tho

My friend said he watches way too much adult themed stuff. And I was like "wait fr-"

2 minutes ago, KoconutBounty said:

any funny/weird stories of your own?

Quite a few.

One time my friend's friend was at the door leading to the smaller gym, and me and friends were there too watching as he said  "Do *insert bad substance*, skip school" to a bunch of little kids who were standing at the door. 

And then, the same day, he broke the glass (like a noticable dent) on the door to the small gym, and we all agreed never to discuss it again, and so it remained unspoken of.

1 minute ago, KoconutBounty said:

it was great, i tell you. the entire room went dead silent 

👍

6 minutes ago, KoconutBounty said:

..yes. 

at one point he was asking the same question over and over at me and i looked him straight in the eyes and said "(Name), shut up." and went back to what I was doing. and thing is, I'm the "quiet kid" in that specific class.

Well, I wouldn't blame you.

1 minute ago, KoconutBounty said:

its fine. he always finds some way to bug me, even at one point saying (it wasn't directly said to me but i overheard it through my headphones and he was next to me) "Ebby (not real name, just the one I'm using) should *Duck me." It disgusted me beyond belief. he also at one point made a comment about my rear end making me severely uncomfortable, but the teacher couldn't do nothing cus she "didn't hear it"

 

*a cuss word that rhymes with 'duck' shall be entered here.

Dude sounds like a ducking creep tbh.

1 minute ago, KoconutBounty said:

Im doing good! a little creeped out/frustrated because someone (IRL) I feel is slightly harassing me because they found out I had a YT channel and want to know what my YT name is, and kept bugging me about it, even though I said no.

I'm glad your doing good. I'm sorry to hear that person is bugging you about that. That sucks. :(

13 minutes ago, KoconutBounty said:

hewo

How are you? I hope your doing good.

Oh. That's a possibility. That probably would make sense.

Hi.

So, there's this incredibly long story, but I'll try to make it shorter.

Here's the thing: As a child, I would ignore my gender, and I would do things considered masculine. Like for example: playing with toy motorcycles, and toy cars, (even though I played with girls stuff too, I just enjoyed playing with whatever really), getting dirty and not even caring, and a bit of lighthearted roughhousing, and such. I made friends easier with boys, and enjoyed the boys company more than girls, (that could probably have to do with the fact the girls were mean to me though). Though I insisted I was a girl, I felt like I fit in with boys, and ignored my gender when having fun and stuff.

Then when I was in the 7th grade I wanted to be a boy. So my friend told me to go for it, so I did of course, and it was great. Then I questioned it again when I heard the term Non-binary, and then Genderfluid, etc. I used up a lot of labels, and doubted myself every time. During that time, when I did ID as a boy, I felt strongly that I was one, at least fully a boy, but when the doubt came, I got really upset, because I wanted to be a boy very very badly.  Then I looked in a book about boys, and saw a (bear with me here, I'm gonna try to explain it) graphic image, that had made me repulsed by the idea of ever getting surgery for that. So I was like "ok I must definitely be Non-binary, right?" And so, I ID'd as that for a time. Another part during this complicated time was when I was still a boy, and got confused because it suddenly felt as if I were forcing myself to be that way. It upset me. Anyway, skipping because it's a mess. So, it felt like I was switching between gender neutral, and male. I grew sick of it, and it didn't feel like a fit.

I somehow catch myself using He/him pronouns on myself, and using male nouns, and referring to myself as male, since the only way I can word it is it feels right to me. It feels better than female nouns and pronouns, and gender neutral nouns and pronouns.

As for something else that may help: I really want a flat chest, and androgynous voice, and hrt, and as for one specific, yet personal thing, I'm not sure, I'm considering the surgery I was oh so repulsed by earlier (I was informed that it could've been because i was unfamiliar with it).

What do you think? I know you can't tell me who I am, but I prefer perspective or however you'd word it.

I forgot the sexuality part *Shrugs*

4 minutes ago, KoconutBounty said:

im cool with that ^^

That's nice! Thank you! :)

Just now, KoconutBounty said:

Haii! you can call me Reese (irl Nickname, sorta) or Ebony/Ebby (Just a name I like) I go by she/her

I identify as a Sex-Repulsed Hetero-Oriented AroAce, who is Anti-Touch with new people.

I like watching/making YouTube videos, Watching cartoons, reading, music, and art.
Hobbies are pretty simple: Making YT videos, reading, and drawing/sketching
I love the Sun and Moon Show, too! 
I don't like sticky things, Macaroni Salad, the feeling of raw ground beef, or being stereotyped because of my gender or ADHD
I'm kind of bad at introductions too lol cus I tend to struggle to know how to start a conversation/keep it going. though Online is A LOT easier for me to introduce myself.
I don't know much about sailor moon, but if you wanna go off on a tangent about It id be happy to listen. ^^

I'd be happy to be a friend! and answer any questions (that I'm able to anyways)
 

You cool with being friends? 

I'd like someone to get to know better. :)

Hi everyone. My name is Moon. Pronouns are he/him.

I like watching YouTube videos, movies, reading, writing, coloring, music, and pretty basic things.
Hobbies are pretty simple: Writing, reading, music, collecting things, seeing sights.
I also like the Sun and Moon Show, and would love to be friends with people who like that too.
I don't like green beans, or avocados, but other vegetables are fine.
I'm kind of bad at introductions.
I like making new friends, but am very afraid of talking to people who I am not familiar with, with the exception of interaction with people online, since I find it easier.
I'm a huge Sailor Moon fan, so i may talk about that quite a bit.

I have no idea what else to say. Heh.