One problem with my mom is that she is very romance-centered. She asks my brother to date, my dad to date, and she pushed me to date until I pushed back.
My brother even said she's "weirdly obsessed" with dating, to the extent that she used my autism to force a relationship upon me.
She said "what happens when I die" and "I hope you find someone" and "I want you to feel love".
In comparison, the idea of even "dating" gives me extreme anxiety.