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  1. On 11/15/2022 at 11:33 AM, Fandom Fanatic said:

    I like a guy. And I like a girl. But I also can't tell the difference between platonic, alterous, and romantic attraction, so that's complicated.

    SAME, I can't tell what sexuality I am simply because differing those feelings are so hard, cause I'm like "Oh I obviously like guys" and another part of me says "but girls are also attractive I think but I don't want to like, kiss them or do anything about it" 

    AHHHHH WHY IS THIS SO HARD

    Honestly I'm identifying as full on aroace and nothing else because I don't feel like figuring that out at this point in my life :)

  2. I'm extremely annoyed by my aroace-ness because I'm lonely and I know it, but I don't want the commitment and the judgement, plus the billion other things that come with a relationship kissing, hugging, having to be around them ALL THE TIME, etc. And half the time I can barely tell if I like someone back at all. It's honestly annoying. 

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  3. On 4/20/2016 at 3:48 PM, Natkat said:

    I think its so difficult to tell squish and chrush apart. all the thing with kissing and jelously are blurred like I may want to kiss them and I may not and I dont typically get jelous but I am capable of jelousy even when I dont feel like I experience the type of jelousy that is typical in many romantic relationships.

    YES, this is so true, I struggle so much with figuring out whether I have a crush or a squish or just something different. I think I have a squish on one of my friends and I have helped him get with a couple of girls and give him relationship advice all the time so I feel zero jealousy but I love talking to him and trying to figure out the way his brain works. I also bring him up in the most random conversations.

  4. I'm gonna preface this with I'm aro but I still feel a little bit of romantic attraction sometimes and I don't think I really know what repulsion feels like in that sense but romantic attraction doesn't really feel like that, I don't think. Sure I feel anxious sometimes when I know that someone likes me but if you liked them back I'm pretty sure you would feel more of an excited feeling. Like, I still feel anxiety over those things but it's like a "good anxiety" if that makes sense.

  5. I think it's really hard, almost impossible to describe a meaning of "romantic attraction" that everyone can agree upon, it's such a vague concept, but everyone is supposed to apparently know how to describe it and understand it just by coming into contact with it. Because describing feelings to someone is extremely hard, like describing what color looks like to a blind person, not saying that aros don't have the feeling at all it was just the first analogy that came to mind. A lot of times people try to describe the feeling as wanting to hug or kiss someone or something but I don't know if that's a good way to describe it. I feel like someone can still like someone and not want to be committed or have to be around them 24/7 or hug and kiss them. I really don't know if any of this is accurate or if there's something I'm missing(I was kinda just ranting) so if I'm just ignorant someone please let me know, or just lmk what you think.

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  6. Hydrangea, Sunflower, and I love types of Ivy and ferns.

    On 11/10/2022 at 1:44 AM, A_Mess said:

    Hadn't thought about it much but I have decided just now that it is the Calathea Medallion. I mean, just look at it. The leaves look like they're painted ❤️

    Calathea-Medallion-Care.webp.fff0b09a924032a98a983841072dc8d7.webp

    I also relate to this plant because I too am easily sunburned, don't like tap water, and am prone to iron deficiency. 🤣

    I LOVE THIS ONE!!!!! THAT'S SO PRETTY AHHHHH!!!

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